Something I've wanted to try for a while, I made
some chocolate syrup with honey. I remember I
was kind of upset when I saw that chocolate syrup
is just chocolate of some type and corn syrup.
Corn syrup has got to be just about the cheapest
stuff there is. I get more honey than I can ever
use because my dad keeps bees. And chocolate syrup
is actually kind of expensive. So quite a while
I had gotten some cocoa to do this with, but I
hadn't gotten around to doing it. If you try
to make hot chocolate with cocoa, you see the problem.
It doesn't mix with cold water, kind of stays in little
dry clumps, so you have to heat it. I was figuring
making syrup would have the same deal, but I try
just stirring the cocoa into the honey, and it seemed
to do fine. Now I'm thinking that its thickness is
just letting it mix ok, and maybe the dissolved sugar
lets it attract the chocolate instead of the water
just making it repel it. Extra thick, though, much
more than regular syrup. I wasn't really sure about
the proportion, but some recipe seemed to suggest about
a third cocoa. I later found a recipe that has water
and sugar, and it has hardly any cocoa. So I'll keep working
on it. That other recipe had some other interesting
ideas I need to try. The stuff I have isn't quite
like the original, but it seems to be doing alright.
This recipe suggest using some vanilla, which really makes
sense, and a little butter, which just sounds interesting.
It does also involve heating the stuff up, which makes
sense, especially sense it's like one to one water/sugar,
but also with the cocoa. And it has cornstarch. I guess
for thickening or something.
Yeah. Machines really do a lot of work for us, so honestly,
we don't really need people working so hard. I guess
conservatives hate the notion of freeloaders. It makes
them feel bad that other people take advantage, and
just in general they love discipline. So they like
having the whole busy work, servant wage-slave labor thing,
which is just so soul draining. And honestly, it's
part of their religion. Religion is good for slavery.
Work hard until you die and everything, and then
you'll be rewarded. I kind of suspect that Christianity
was popular with the politicos at the time because of how
well it supports the whole slavery system. It is still
a sort of question of how it managed to catch on so well.
And I just recently heard from Steve and Sheila the idea
that maybe Paul was just a con-man like Joseph Smith.
They were listening to the Teaching Company lecture
on Paul, and they were thinking how similar they sounded.
I should look into it. Was it just a scam? I know that
a lot of Christianity was invented by Paul, and I've
heard the idea that Jesus was something he came up
with, and later people thought he was really there.
But I was thinking more delusion than out and out fraud.
So I'm intrigued.
I do need to look at getting some work. I think I'm a pretty
smart guy, and just grunt application programming is a bit
of a waste for me. It hasn't generally been a concern for me,
but I should look at best using my potential. I guess.
Been watching Auto-Tune the News #6.
Can we please choose something in between?
Mediocrity? Chastity? Puppetry? Obesity? Marijuanity? Pretty Please?
Shorty!
I dug down into my pile of books. I finally finished the latest
John Schartzwelder, _Dead Men Scare Me Stupid_, so having
taken something off the top, I thought I could start some others
from the very large pile of ones I haven't even started. And
Maybe I'll go back to some others. I sort of shuffled one
actual stack on the floor so some of the ones I feel interested
in are closer to the top. I was feeling like looking more at _Halfway
up the Mountain_ and starting _Lamb_. But in that stack was
_What Are You Optimistic About?_. It just seems to happy
and uplifting, and I've been a little depressed, I guess, so
I started on it. Not completely pollyanna, they try to be
realistic and scientic and evidence based. It's all fairly
short essays. Lots and lots of ideas. Sam Harris has one--
moral realism. The idea that morality can be studied objectively,
as it is based on suffering, which is something that you could
presumably see out in the world. Trippy.
Fresh Market had glace de poulet gold. Four
dollars for an ounce an a half. But that's about
what that stuff costs. It's a chicken
glace, or sauce extract. They didn't have the beef
or veal version. But since I had it, I could google
the product and the same people do make a beef
or veal one. Seems odd that they didn't have that, too.
Oh well. You can get them from Amazon, but the shipping
is expensive enough that you would need to get
a bunch to be worth it, I guess. One reviewer
said the stuff from Williams Sonoma is better.
There's a store for them here in Memphis, if it's
still open. It's $30 for 6 ounce demi-glace. The
glace said the ounce and a half would make four
cups of stock, so it's pretty concentrated. I'm not
sure how much I'm going to try to use. I'm sure
I'm not going to thin it all the way to a stock.
Right now, I'm roasting a pork shoulder roast.
About 4 pounds. I was thinking I was going
to get a butt, which is a little fattier, and that's
kind of what I wanted, but it was twenty cents
a pound more. I was just feeling cheap. And I
could get a little more for less price, though this
had a pretty big bone, some maybe it wasn't so good.
But I boiled down some bones just now, so I was
thinking that might be good. One thing I'm doing
different with this roast is using some vanilla.
The food book suggested that would go well with pork,
so I'm giving it a shot. I was just going to do a few
drops, but I couldn't see the stuff in the little bottle,
and it kind of poured out. And I used pepper and salt,
which I normally don't do. I have been using garlic
powder. And some lemon. I also always sit the roast
on onion slices. We have a little metal rack that
I could use, but I've found the onion slices seem
to do a great job. I don't know if I'm going
to try to make a gravy. I usually just use the juice
as it is. Mom mom has shown be how to make sauces,
but it never sticks from just watching. I need to
do it with supervision. That really worked with
sauteing the squash. Several times she has shown
me how to make a cream sauce for cream chicken,
or chicken ala king, and it just doesn't stick.
It's one of my favorite things to eat, but I
have never made it myself. Many times I've
deboned a boiled chicken in helping her make it.
I just haven't gone the whole way.
Well, the gravy was easy after all. I guess if
you see something hundreds of times, you shouldn't
worry so much about trying it. It wasn't especially
flavorful, though. Probably needed salt. The vanilla
made a kind of a strange accent. That and the whole
onion made it a little sweet. Now the pots and
dishes are done. Tunes make chores much more
palatable. I'm becoming pretty domestic.
Me eating vegetables. It's odd. But it's more a
conflict between me not wanting to waste food and
eating vegetables and not wasting food comes first.
Seems like it always does. And it seems like it's
not that I don't like eating vegetables, it's just
a lot of work fixing them. Maybe I'm getting more
used to it, though. This food is from my parents'
garden, which I picked myself. And it's mostly
not very good. I have a plastic grocery bag full
of green beans, but they are mostly too old and kind
of woody. My mom had me sauteing squash for her a couple
times, so I practiced that enough to be comfortable
with it. I tried at with these garden beans one time, and they
were pretty terrible. These I tried boiling in bouillon,
and they were a little better. I've got a bunch of
overgrown squash that probably will have the same
problem, and I'm not sure yet if I'm going to
try it. I picked it mainly because it needed
to be picked, but I didn't just throw it away
right away like I possible should have. One thing
about this, too, I seem to like tomatoes again.
I liked them as a little kid, but not really since
then. I'm thinking now, though, that the problem was
that I haven't been putting salt and pepper on them,
which my mom did for me as a little kid, and I guess
I just don't like them like that. I pretty much
never salt or pepper anything, but I guess I
need to learn better.
Finished the book on food and cooking. I guess I
know some stuff now that I didn't before. Probably
more than anything I appreciate that stuff a lot more.
One thing I just tried. I was planning to go stay
at the farm over Fourth of July weekend, and I was
going to miss garbage pickup on Monday. So for that week,
instead of putting chicken bones in the garbage, which
would have gotten pretty bad after a couple of weeks,
I put them in the freezer, and I would boil them after the
week. And when I came back, I got a 10-piece bucket of
KFC crispy, and I had the bones from that, too. It
was a bunch of bones, actually a little more than I
though. I did use a little lemon juice to make it
more acidic. The idea is that bones have a lot of collagen,
like 20%. When I was done, they were very crumbly,
and I had some really thick stuff. I'm not sure what
I'm going to do with it, but I have it, now. A weird
thing is that the KFC bones have given it a bit of
a KFC flavor, though I'm not exactly sure what that
is from. It isn't like stock, it's opaque like milk.
I guess it's just some kind of sauce that I should
pour over something. And speaking of sauces, supposedly
you can buy demi-glace in frozen foods, which is part
of that classical French cooking where you cook down
a bunch of meat. I really need to try to find some of that.
I don't think I've ever seen it. It's a ton of work to make.
Sounds tasty, though. I love the taste of meat, and this
is like pure meat extract. Yummy. It seems to me like
so much cooking is flavoring with herbs and spices
and plant stuff. That's just personally seems wrong to me.
And I've been a little more into cheese. Nothing fancy.
Cheddar is good with me, and even "American" whatever that is.
I even tried some Velveeta. Maybe I was hungry, but it
didn't seem so bad. It isn't exactly cheese, but it is
what it is and somehow it seemed alright.
And I come back, and a lot of my corn stalks have broken
of. They haven't gotten very big, but they were at least growing.
I think some are working on little cobs.
Happy Fourth of July! Happy Independence Day,
which is kind of an ironic holiday for a dictatorship.
Out feeding the mosquitoes again. Mom hid the sprinkler
somewhere, so I have to water the lawn by hand. Last week,
I did the front in the midafternoon, and it seemed like
the sun must have dried up most of it, so I decided to do
it in the evening. And the mosquitoes were out in back.
I think there must be places in the backyard where there
are some puddles, because there are a lot of them there.
I got one when it was sitting on the back of my hand, and
had a big blob of blood. We'll see how it goes. I don't
seem to be scratching them, so maybe they will go away.
Also a bit of a sunburn. I had used some repellant, but
I think I washed it all off pretty quick. And I never use
sunblock. Seems like it wouldn't have been that bad, but it
got the backs of my legs.
Michael Coplon and Liz have been doing push hands everyday,
and just yesterday, I joined them. I missed on Tuesday
because I didn't sleep well the night before, and at the appointed
time, I was asleep. They do it from about 12:30 to maybe 2.
Push hands isn't something I've really done much, but it's
similar to an Aikido exercise I did a little bit. I really
used more muscle than I shoould have, but I'm really not so used
to it yet. My back really hurt after it. Michael is quite
good. He pushed me over quite a bit, so I see better now what
they mean by that in tai chi. I guess it was kind of odd
for me, because in bagua, you never stand still, and it seems
like that was what you were supposed to do in this thing.
Liz, though. She said several times she didn't like to
do it with me. I didn't do things that she was expecting.
She was used to just beating up on Michael, I suppose.
They were saying I had monkey arms. I'm not sure what
they meant. I think they meant they seemed longer, but
I don't know if that's right. I know my legs are short, but
I'm not particularly sure about my arms. I know I used to
be more rubbery. And there were just a few times when Liz
just said she wouldn't practice with my. She did a little
more at the end when she was getting a bit more left out,
just to be doing something. Michael seemed to be happy
to have someone else to play with. And I think I did
a few things that he wasn't so used to, and he was happy
to have a chance to practice against those things. But
it seemed like such a bummer for Liz. So I said I would
go again, but I don't really want to if it's something
Liz doesn't really want. She seemed to try to be nice about
it at the end when we were talking about it. But she tries
to be nice. And at the beginning, she was tapping me quite
a bit, and she was always saying sorry. That sounded like
something that could have contributed to her not liking
to train with me. Didn't really feel comfortable with
me. Actually Michael was saying a little bit about that,
that he didn't really know me so well, so he didn't know
so much what to expect. But I don't think I let her Liz me as much
as she wanted. A few times I trapped her arms or grabbed
or pinned them. And I think a couple times i went for throws.
I didn't actually do any throws, but I tried to go for the
set ups, which are hard. I don't think Michael ever got off
balance--that seemed like a priority for him. The biggest
thing I got from it was how out of shape I am. Doing something
for an hour or two every day probably has a lot of benefit.
We'll see how it goes.
I brought Liz a copy of Yip Man
because her son Noel is studying Wing Chun. Michael
had actually loaned them a copy, and Noel watched it,
but Liz didn't see it all. I also gave her a copy of
effortless combat throws from Tim Cartmell. She
probably is not going to be so effective trying to
hit someone. They seem to really be into the whole
scratching eyes out, thing. I don't know about that.
Some things will just make people angry. The thing about
throws-- it takes a lot of practice and skill to
get good at them, but you don't have to be very strong
to use them, and they can do more damage than
anything else.
But emotionally, the most significant thing for me was
how Liz just didn't like me being there. And I've always
liked Liz, but there sometimes rejection can be a big
turnoff. I don't know. It seems like when someone is
too interested, that can make you less interested, so
you would think that being hard to get would make you more
interested. But I guess if someone just doesn't want you around,
maybe that can hurt your feelings. Or maybe I'm just thinking
about how not being with someone can help you want to
be with them. But actually spending time with them, and seeing
nothing going on can be discouraging.
Happy Canada Day! Happy Kalends of July!
That was a very different day for me. Should I
write about it? I'll have to think about it.
Lots of people involved. I guess that's what's
different about it. But I'm thinking, maybe
better to just let it settle like a normal experience.
When I write about things, I tend to let it go more easily.
But maybe I shouldn't.
On thing though, was something I was talking about in
the MFA meeting. Fundamentalism and atheism are
actually pretty close. They both have a sort of
conception about god as a real, sort of physical
magician character in the world. Just that atheists
dismiss it and fundamentalists accept it. Liberal
religions are actually quite distant from both,
in being able to accept the mythical and figurative
nature of religious stories, and that's good enough.
But that view can explain some things. I thought
about it and brought it up because there was
a guy there who was a fundamentalist, and became
a bit of a biblical scholar, studying Greek. But
he came across something that just broke the camel's
back, and unravelled everything. Now I can't remember
what it was. I think he said it was in going over
the flood and ark story. And it was thinking about
the ostrich. How could there be a flightless bird?
It had to be evolution. So he just gave it all up.
And that was the first time he had been in a group of atheists
and admitted it to anyone. For twenty years. But back
to the relationship between fundamentalists and atheists,
and the separation from liberals. The thing was,
he didn't go from being a fundamentalist to a liberal
Christian who just thought they were stories. He
went to being an atheist, and just still thinking they
were literal stories, they just were wrong. My analogy
picture now is that in ideaspace, fundamentalists
and atheists are standing right next to each other but
with a tall wall in between. It is possible that
the wall can be broken through, and people move from
one to the other, but it is very very difficult.
But way far over, past were the wall ends, are the
liberal religionist. It would be a long walk to move
between the positions, but you don't have to go through
a wall. And one thing is is that the fundamentalists
come into much more conflict with the atheists, because
they are concerned with similar things, like how
the earth and life here physically developed, so you
have evolution debates, like talking over a wall.
Kevin mentioned an atheist blog by Greta Christina.
Actually he talked about one post showing up on alternet
about "Why Do Atheists Have to Talk About Atheism?"
I think it's important to a fundamentalist worldview that
the world is very young. And an important part of that is
that the creator of that world is nice. He general doesn't
do something that doesn't work, and it fails, and something
new has to come along. Just because of all the mistakes,
evolution in that worldview is a bad thing. Evolution requires
a long time. So for the idea to work, and to have a good
creator, you really do need everything to have only been
going on for a short period of time, like a few thousand
years, maybe. One that time scale, you could possibly
well see things as getting better and better all the time.
OK, so Michael Coplon suggested something that I found
intriguing. Jason had said something about how he
saw an article one time about how the was some kind
of problem with crime and people had gotten together for a big
prayer meeting. The article was just about the prayer
meeting, and they didn't say anything about doing something
that might have actually affected crime, like meetings or
something. Michael suggested that government people,
especially conservatives, support that sort of thing
so people won't look for the government to do any
work. It helps keep government out of things if
people think they are doing something themselves.
But it's just prayer, which is pretty useless by itself.
I did tried to defend it a little, that it was at
least a speach act showing that people want things
a certain way, and that has at least some value.
Also, Anne talked about getting a letter from some
city councilman replying to her note codemning his
opposition to some gay rights something or other.
He said he felt he had to make decisions based on
faith, which he did in this case. OK. Something
about separation of church and state, blah blah.
I did not speak up about separation of church and
state not being in the constitution, only
establishing a church. Not the same. It did seem
like something that might have some legal bearing, though.
He wasn't trying to uphold the contitution--equal
protection-- he was using something else. Not
really attempting to have rule of law, but
of men trying to follow religious beliefs.
Some people believe that's fine, but others don't.
But the restriction on establishment can be thought
of fairly narrowly. It's wrong to use public
school to indoctrinate people into believing religious
ideas of some group. OK, that's something. But the
government also can't make people believe and make decisions
a certain way, like I'm guessing Anne wants.
Let's call it non-ordinary reality. I was still asleep.
I had looked up and saw that Super five was not playing.
But I suddenly wondered if maybe Tom Dick and Harry was
playing. I did understand that I was asleep and only
dreaming, but I did think of that, and I was wanting
to look it up on the computer, but it was just too
hard to wake up and do that. So I just fell back in
silly dreaming. I did wake up a little later, at 9:30,
and checked and sure enough, they were playing at 64.
So I get up and go there. Nice enough. Missed the first
set. The had a DJ, and I did get to hear Thriller.
There was this really cute little girl in a cowboy hat.
In the third set, there was an empty chair next to the
spot where she had been sitting. The chair she had
been in was tipped over like she was coming back. I
decided to sit and get a burger with tater tots. She
asked to have one of my tater tots. Sure. I did not
properly make her feel welcome, I guess, because she
only took the one, though she said she might get some
with cheese. And then some guy asked to try them.
And that was fine. He must have been really hungry,
because he kept popping them. There were really more than
I wanted, so that was fine. And I told him little girl
in the cowboy hat was thinking of getting some, and she
was too little to eat a whole one. He didn't seem to
feel like following the implication, though. I've been
playing on my iPhone the whole time. She was actually
trying to take a picture with her phone, and tried to
get me to take one of her and a friend, but it seemed too
dark, and I couldn't get it them to show up on the screen,
but just take the darn picture! Whatever. I don't think
I got anything. She used a lighter for more light, but
it didn't seem to work. She went off dancing with some
guy to some country song. Some time after she came back,
she asked me what I was doing. I said I was hanging with
friends. On emails lists. Which ones? Well the intp,
and the mensa atheist list. On the intp list, some guy
was fired from his pizza delivery job. Bad attitude, it
seemed like. But she asked me why I was an atheist.
Hmm. Now there's a question. I guess it's clearly just
a story they made up. There are lots of stories. She
said she was a native american, a methodist, and a buddha
something. Spiritual person. And believes there is more.
But not such a big believer. And it's important to her
not to criticize other people. Seemed like she had stuff
to say. I had mostly been sitting such that my arm was between
us, but I did eventually sit to include her a bit better,
so that my arm was back a bit, and facing her more. And I could
look her more in the eye. But I guess that was threatening to
dude, because he came and sat on the other side of her, and
then she was just talking to him. I don't know. Seems like
she had mentioned a husband. But then she said something about
a Church of Christ person, which seems like she must have meant him.
Not my business. So, they say you have better luck if you don't
seem interested, but if you don't talk at all, that doesn't
do anything. Kind of a balance. She said when she went to
college, she because more liberal. I should have asked about
that. The bartender was also very cute. Jessica. I really didn't
have enough money to tip properly. A couple of fives. I think
she deserved better. As much as she smiled.
I don't remember where it was. Some comedy TV show. Maybe
comic book guy? Nerd is doing well with some girl, and
she makes a reasonable suggestion about him, and he says,
don't try and change me. Man, I wish I could remember.
It was so slick.
mosquito. it's dark, but it came in front of the screen. Couldn't
get it. nasty critters.
Got at least one bite now. But I think I got it. And I am quite
able to not scratch. It will go away if you don't. I'm not
sure why people have such trouble with that. Self-indulgence?
Poor impulse control? They just prefer the slight short term
release over the long term satisfaction of it going away? It's
easy to scratch almost without thinking. Great way to live,
not thinking.
I found it. It's in the Simpson's tenth season episode
"Mayored to the Mob". I just watched it recently. It's
the one with Mark Hamill and Star Wars stuff, and it's at
a sci fi convention, which is a place where nerds have more luck:
% Bart and Lisa run off, probably a good idea. Elsewhere, the Comic
% Book Guy goes through a few boxes of comics, making a horrifying
% discovery.
Comic Book Guy: Someone has mixed an "Amazing Spiderman" in with the
"Peter Parker: The Spectacular Spiderman" series.
This will not stand.
Comic Book Girl: Pardon me, but I wish to tender a serious offer for
this stack of water-damaged "Little Lulu"s.
Comic Book Guy: "A", that is not water, that is Diet Mr. Pibb. And
"B", I ... ooh ...
[the Comic Book Guy obviously sees something he likes
in this woman's face, as he is unable to speak at the
sight of her eyes, braces, and misshapen nose]
Comic Book Guy: Tell me, how do you feel about forty-five year-old
virgins who still live with their parents?
Comic Book Girl: Comb the Sweet-Tarts out of your beard and you're on.
Comic Book Guy: Don't try to change me, baby.
I mean, when we were talking, our faces were like 12 inches apart.
That's pretty far inside each other's personal space. When she was eating,
her elbow was bumping up against me. Somehow familar. But I'll
probably never see her again, and I didn't even get her name. I probably
wouldn't recognize her if I saw her again.
I watched the scene. I'm not sure if the text quite does it justice.
They're wearing the same "alien biopsy" t-shirt.
They kind of linger on moment between them, with some Star Trek music cue,
I'm not sure exactly. Maybe it's the music from when the space flower
made Spock and everybody fall in love. She might have been jailtail.
And they did a weird smile with a twinkling on her braces and backlighting.
And when he says don't try to change me baby, it's not like he's going on--
he just goes back to what he's doing.
Little red-haired girl Michelle at Walgreens is still very cute.
Maybe eventually I will remember her name.
And the girl at the bar asked, I'm not positive how she phrased it,
but it was something like, "what reason do you have to live?" Or
"why do you get up in the morning?" That was kind of trippy. Seems
like the wording of the question must have been important, but
I don't remember exactly. I think I said something like, well,
I just try to be happy. Seems like she was explaining how if
there was nothing else after, then what? Just be happy with
what you have. Why does there have to be any more? Seemed
like there was some kind of emotional disconnect, like she
was seeing some problem that I was not seeing. I don't know.
Wow, there it is. I'm listening to the commentary on the Star Trek:
First Contact movie with Ron Moore and Brannon Braga, the writers.
This is the movie with the Borg. They're talking about how
continuity has been such a problem and they'd like to get rid
of it. I guess that's where that new crap came from. They
also talked about how people like having this whole universe of
stuff. And now it's gone. Maybe that's just what I didn't like.
I do like big bodies of multiple pieces that create complicated
worlds. And they threw it all away. Well, I think about it.
I guess there were actually several things that I didn't like
about the recent movie, and that was just one.
OK, health insurance. So it looks like Obama's
plan is just to get a government health insurance
in addition to the private insurances. So the government
is going to get into the business. I guess that's
not too bad. One of his big priorities is to
lower costs. So he's going to stick it to the
providers. And hopefully the drug companies, too.
They're about the only folks who might be able
to muscle in on that racket. They already buckled
under before with the medicare thing--where they
got an agreement not use their muscle to negotiate
prices. Hopefully they will come to realize that
the real power of organized crime. The government
is the biggest mob of all. The druggies got them
on their side, but surely they could turn against
them at any time. I hope that's what goes on.
The cutest thing I saw was what Obama said when
some insurance folks started whining that the government
with its muscle was going to put folks out of business.
But people were saying the government wasn't going
to do a good job, because it was too bureaucratic,
or some crap like that. Can't have it both ways.
Not logical. If you can't do your job, screw you.
There was also the thing about "rescission". If
a person gets sick, they'll go back over the application
for some mistakes. Somebody didn't put 'acne' on
her medical history. And they denied all the claims,
backdating it to deny previous ones, too. And they
were talking about this in Congress. I think they
ask if they could really live with themselves. And
then they ask if they would consider stoppin that crap,
and they all said no. Well OK. Piss off the big mob,
and less just see what happens to you. And I like
the way Obama has already shown he doesn't care about
contract anymore. The deal with the repayments to
creditors in the auto industry. Lots of regressives
pissed off about that. He's going all anarcho-syndicalist
on us. Excellent! They wanted a dictatorship.
We got it. I'm just glad it's going left-wing on
their asses.
I hate microsoft and its crappy operating systems.
I wanted to just to turn on my computer and write something,
but my desktoip has a thing sometimes when it gets stuck
in something on start up and won't get through it for a half
and hour or so. But you can't tell it's happening until
you've waited for a few minutes. So I'm just sitting there.
Getting angrier and angrier. I just went to another computer.
And of course, by that time I don't really remember what all
I was wanting to write about.
I just listened to Noam Chomsky talking about some political
stuff. Old stuff from like back in 1970. Comparing different
political systems. I think it waw classical liberalism,
his style of libertarian anarchism, and I forget what exactly
the others were, something like socialist statism and capitalist
statism. Whatever. He said he was kind of an anarchist back
then. And I have said I'm an anarchist. I don't think I'm
quite as consistent or thought out as Chomsky and some of the
other writers he was talking about. He said one thing intriguing--
all anarchists are socialists, though not all socialists are
anarchists. And yeah, socialism is an economic system, not
a political system. People use the scare word socialism
to try to keep the government for paying for health care.
One problem with that is that medicine is not really a system
of industrial production, so it isn't really the same sort
of economic entity that is talked about in the discussion
between socialism and capitalism. The central issue there
is who should control the means of production, and the
socialists think the people doing the work should, which
is a little more decentralized, and the capitalist think
a small number of owners should, with the control flowing
from the top down. And that system turns people into
little unthinking cogs in a big machine, which essentially
devalues them as people. The system Chomsky advocates
is a system where the workers control everything. I think
the logical idea is that people who do the work know best
how to get it done, while the capitalist idea, I suppose,
is that the owners put more work into making decisions
because they are more strongly motivated by greed and have
more focus. I don't know exactly. One of the capiralist
arguments is that central control is more "efficient" but
I'm not sure how important that is. Also, it might be difficult
to get a large number of people involved in the decision
process, which is needed in a socialist system, but that
hardly seems like it would be true, especially given our
modern communication systems. I think the idea is
more like an athenian democracy, where any citizen can
come along and make suggestions. More decentralized than that,
of course, because there would be a lot of different systems
of meetings. I haven't really looked up what he means
by "syndicalism" but I'm guessing it's just these systems
of meetings to get things done.
So I got to the chapter on candy, I don't think I'm
going to actually make any candy myself, but it's
interesting to read about it. Also chocolate. Mmm.
It turns out that the original cacao bean is actually
pretty tasteless on it's own, other than being bitter.
Most of the taste comes from it fermenting and then
roasting. Seems like I wanted to get some of the
original beans, but I see that's not really so got.
So the fermenting is in the mushy goop around the
pod. Bruce told me that in South America, you can
get that stuff, and it's really yummy or something.
Probably it's some kind of alcoholic mixture, too.
I've kind of been interested in trying that, from
what he said. Also, the fermenting is done on
the plantation, and it's quite possible that they do
a poor job--not enough, or so much that it gets
moldy. Seems like the big chocolate people surely
must have some system to help the farmers do a better
job. But whatever.
The parents left for California yesterday. And I've
already finished off pretty much all of the leftovers.
So many little pots and things. And I've washed them
already, So I can get back to just eating how I want.
I guess it's nice to have food prepared, but it's
disruptive, and I had put on a few pounds, which
is probably bad.
I've got the book club downtown tonight at Aimee's.
_Revolutionary Road_. Actually we're going to
watch the movie. I've been having a lot of trouble
deciding if I want to go down to Bardog after. And
I have to give Melissa warning, so I have to decide
early. I think I've decided against it. I'm getting
more and more cheap, and I think I don't want to spend
the money. And the sad thing is that I really kind
of do have the money, but it's all in the stock market
and I just feel bad about selling. It's really kind of
that that's making me feel cheap, I guess. Usually
I just spend money like a drunk sailor. So I guess
that's probably actually a good thing. And there's
that Mensa Annual Gathering that I kind of feel too
cheap to go to. I guess it's just as well. I really need
to get more busy and try to write some programs or
something. One thing I'm realizing-- for a while
I was thinking I wanted to do web design, but since
I realized I'm really not very visual, I can see that
web design, because it is so visual, was really not
something that I could really get very interested in.
It's kind of ironic that at FedEx I was a big
person on the GUI team. It didn't really do very
much visual stuff, and if I did, it was quite simple.
I was mostly wrestling with the underlying mechanics
to get it working. I do need to be more self aware
about this. Possibly I have trouble looking for stuff
because I keep thinking of these visual sorts of projects
that I really am not interested in.
Busy news day. Memphis Mayor Willie Herenton resigned
after 18 years. Michael Jackson died. That seems to be
the be the big news infotainment story. And yes,
it's sad, but not really that big a thing. The PBS
news hour doesn't seem to be mentioning it. Its
main story is the Supreme Court decision against
strip searches. Hmm. They're not saying he is dead.
Farrah Fawcett did die, though. Maybe they didn't
get it confirmed in time. Oh well.
Happy Father's Day! Happy Solstice! Happy First Day of Summer!
Happy Longest Day of the Year!
Mmm. Pancakes.
So, I went shopping with Mom. We were picking out a chuck roast
for today, and there was one a little bigger, but it had a line
of fat and gristle. Also, the color was a little darker,
which just seemed better to me. I said I thought it looked good.
It's my feeling that fattier pieces taste better. And even the
gristle is going to have a bunch of collagen. That was just
the top that we could see. The bottom was worse. And my mom
said it wasn't very good. And she's cooking it slow. We'll
see how it goes. Last night, she made a ham steak. Baked
it in the oven with pineapple on top. Cooked out a huge
amount of water, so it was really dry and pretty tough. Not the
worst I've seen. I've done a lot worse myself. But that really
was kind of unexpected. I'm not sure what otherwise we could have done.
Looking up a recipe, that's basically what it says to do. I don't
know what happened.
OK, the roast was good. Tender. If there was gristle, I didn't
see it. And the ham steak. Mom cooked it for an hour. It was from
frozen, so maybe it should have been a little longer, but the
recipes say 20 minutes.
So the last section on sauces is five pages about salt. The word
sauce comes from a word meaning salt, but still that seems like
a lot of space for it. Then again, he said every thing in the
book pretty much involved salt, so I guess it's important.
I'm not sure what all it's going to have to say.
Well, I said the chapter was about bread. It hasw gone
on to talk about cakes and pies and pastries and cookies.
It's also going to talk about pastries. So flour is
really versatile. I kind of need to go get something.
So Melissa got a new car. A fancy pretty red audi.
It had like 20,000 miles on it. She was about to pay
off her old car, so she felt like getting another one.
and she wants to keep the car note. Seems very silly to
me. And she wanted it for the trip to Florida she has
gone on this week for fathers day. Parents down there.
She was so happy, showing it off to people. It is very nice.
Turbo. Never had a red car before. I always do red cars.
Seems like its gotten a lot less popular because everyone
says red cars get more tickets. I'm pretty sure that's
because sports cars are so often red. Or used to be.
The next chapter is on sauces, something I really don't
know much about. In honor of it, I broke out the
barbecue sauce and had it on some chicken. Right now,
I'm still looking at the history of sauces. It looks
like the French used to boil down huge amounts of meat
to make sauce--more meat than would be served at the
meal. Used to, I think they must have quit that.
Happy Ides of June!
Finished looking at the Stanford lectures on machine
learning. Seems like you probably really need to do
the homework to fully get it, but I at least have
some understanding of what they are doing. I looked
at the preview lecture on the class on probabilistic
reasoning. I at least get what the class is about.
The textbook is going to be published at the end
of August, so I might get that. They were just using
a draft of it. It's a big graphical way of encoding
complex probability distributions, but it seems like
it still relies on people to understand what the symbols
and events mean. I guess that's standard in AI.
There's a class on natural language processing that's
available, but it seems like it's the same way. I
might try going through it, but I'm not quite so
enthusiatic. The machine learning seemed to have an
emphasis on robot control, as the professors big
project is an autonomous helicopter. It was his
big example for just about everything.
They switched over to digital TV. Last night, there
was a big storm, and I couldn't pick up one of the
channels during it. I know the antenna had moved
because I tried to move it to a better spot but still
didn't get it working, but I think the weather had an effect,
because it's working now. One channel isn't back, so
I don't think I quite have the direction right. And I
had checked it before the storm and gotten everything.
I don't see the ABC at all, though. It was very weak
before, and it was UHF, so I might just not have it.
Oh well.
Wow. I just watched the first lecture on Natural Language
Processing. It's statistical NLP. So there is pretty much
no attempt to ever understand the meaning of anything.
It's treated as just code hashing. So I have just about
no interest. I might watch a few, because they do seem to get a
lot done, in some sense. And it's fairly easy stuff,
somewhat related to the machine learning stuff.
Happy Friday the Twelfth!
Wow, so there's an answer. Their just going to make
it illegal not to have insurance. Have to pay a fine
if you don't. Or get a waiver. That'll fix it.
That sounds like the kind of answer that the insurance
companies could get behind. Seemed like there was other
stuff in there too. I don't know what it was, though.
So when you lose weight or burn calories, how does the weight
get out of you? I think it's not completely obvious, but
the carbon goes out from breathing out. So just from that
you can see just how slowly losing weight is going to
have to be. You have to breathe out pounds. That's just
going to take a while. That's mostly it. The nitrogen
from protein metabolism goes out in urine, and probably some
of the carbon from that, but generally, it's from breathing.
OK, here it is! I think I've talked about it in
real life. The commentary for the season 8 Simpson's episode,
"In Marge We Trust" Josh Weinstein, the executive producer,
talks about how he can relate to Homer Simspson,
in that when he gets home he just wants to remove
his pants. It's not a sex thing, they encumber him,
and he just wants to remove his pants.
On the mensa atheist list, I wrote about how I
am annoyed by people who say they are agnostics.
And pretty much everyone there argues with my
position, using what I find a very tired argument
that you can't ever know anything completely,
there is always some doubt about everything.
But I find it misleading to say that, especially
to religious people who are only going to take
compfort in that, and think that they are saying
they might be right. And I thinking it's more
of a rationalization so they don't have to stand up
for what they know, that religious stories are
made up. Because it is misleading, it is less honest
to say you are an agnostic, unless you really are
just a wimp like that. Plus with that freakish
conceptualization, know is a meaningless word.
I have no doubts about the statement that there
is no god. Maybe you do. My feeling is that if
you do, you are being a wimp and caving into
the social pressure, and are probably not being
honest with yourself about your thinking and reasons.
Also, an agnostic isn't just keeping his personal
beliefs to himself. He is making a statement about
what "I" can know, and that's personally insulting to me.
Maybe I have a different theory of knowledge than him.
I do, actually. Ah, whatever. Agnosticism stirs
up feelings of anger and righteous indignation in me. Grr.
And reddit had a thing about how 95% of blogs have been abandoned.
Seems low. It made me look at Cliff's blog. He's actually been writing.
Good for him! I think he like published a short story or something.
I don't know. Writing for money? It seems kind of wrong to me, somehow.
And killing trees. Don't get me started.
Wow, so I'm reading the chapter on bread. It's actually on
cereal doughs and batters, but that's mostly bread, and the
section I'm on is bread specifically. And I'm seeing how
little I really knew, even though it's one of the things
I've personally tried to make. Though I'll grant that I've
mostly just been lazy and used a bread machine for the work
involved. One very intriguing thing is that refrigeration
makes bread stale more quickly. And I've been putting
my bread in the refrigerator lately, most because I
really don't eat that much. Probably a vicious cycle,
because now I'm just eating stale bread. OK, I ate
the fake store bread slow enough that it would get moldy,
which is pretty bad. So at least it isn't getting moldy.
It turns out that toasting bread actually makes it
not stale (on the untoasted part) so if you are going
to toast it, it's fine. But I've also been refrigerating
the fancy sourdough stuff that I've been getting, so
I've been eating stale sourdough bread. But with butter,
it seems to taste OK. I can't even put butter on the
fake bread--it'll smush or rip up. Heating can also
make it not stale, and supposedly you can do that in the
microwave--I'm guess as long as the water doesn't escape.
I guess I should be clear on what staling is. It's when the
water moves out of the starch grains, which makes them hard.
But they did an experiment by sealing some bread so no water
actually escaped and it still went stale. So staling isn't
the same as drying, excatly. The water may still be inside
the bread, just having moved out of the little spots
inside the starch structure (I didn't quite get a full picture).
So when you heat it, the water will go back to the right
spot. In toast, the inside will not be stale anymore.
But bread right out of the refrigerator--stale. You can
even freeze it, and it will be OK. Kind of trippy, actually.
So, stale or moldy? I guess personally, thrwoing away
stuff is painful to me, so I can tolerate it being terrible.
Still, now I at least understand a mistake I'm making.
Argh! So Bardog now has a big set of about a dozen of those
little puzzles where you'll have these different pieces that
seem linked together, and you'll have to manipulate them
some kind of way and one piece will come off. Argh.
I sat down next to a guy who was just whipping them off.
I just had to tell Melissa that I don't like those things.
I did a simple one, and there was this harder one, and I'm
sure I could do it eventually. But I just don't like that
stuff. I don't want to have to demostrate how smart I
am. And I'm really not that good at this visual reasoning
stuff. The guy actually said on the one I was doing that
you could see how to do it. Huh? Back at Fedex, they had
puzzles like these sitting around, and I'd be happy to do them
there. Anything to avoid work and I guess, to be sociable.
And it was nice to think about them. Personally, I thought
it was a better accomplishment if you could explain to
other people how to do them. And I think the best accomplishment
would be to get a computer program that could solve those.
And I said that to Melissa, and I got a reaction... It was
like the opposite of when you connect with someone. Or maybe
it was when I describe this puzzle with four cubes with colored
dots that you had to arrange in a pattern so that on each side
all four colors appeared. I wrote a program to do that.
It was like, maybe I sounded proud of it and she thought I
was trying to impress her. Turned her, off. Kind of increased
the distance between us or something. Because I had a place
I was going with that. It took me however long to write--
I had to come up with a way to represent the information about
the arrangements of colors on the cubes, and put that in,
and then put in a program to try the combinations. I don't
know, I've never really been so much into hobby programming,
I've only done really small bits. I have no idea how long it's
going to take--I don't know if I calculated the number of possibilities.
And with Java, you don't know how fast it's going to be.
It took one second to run. A few hours over a few days for me,
and then one second. It's the kind of thing that makes me think
that there are going to be some amazing things happen when computers
are able to program. But I didn't get to that part of the story.
I just completely disengaged with her. But seriously, I need
to get some computer vision applications on the iphone. It
is quite within the capabilities of that device to use the camera
to grab a 3-d model of those puzzles, represent which parts are attached
and not, including things that are rigid pieces and which are chains,
then use the internal 3-d model to find the solution, and then
display a video of the solution so a person can do it, including
just having the camera there watching the person and guiding him through
it. That's even without the hack cheat of just storing all the known
puzzle types in a library. That's a problem worthy of an AI researcher.
You could publish that shite.
While shopping for a sudoku book, I read in several
of the little introductions. Quite of few of them
will talk a bit about the strategies you can use.
One of them mentioned a couple that are on my
outer edge--x-wing and swordfish. And this
one also talked about chain patterns, which to
me don't seem much different from a guessing
strategy. And I think something actually
talked about narrowing the possibilities to
two, and then following stuff till some
error, which is the trickiest thing I do.
Some where in there, they said something I
found insightful. There is a rhythm to
sudoku puzzles. You might go pretty good
at first, and then you get stuck, and you
finally find the tricky ones, and you
rush to the end, and that momentum makes
you ready for another puzzle. That rhythm
is a big piece of what makes them addictive.
It really seems like the kind of thing that
happens to me, especially for when I'll do
a bunch of them in a row. I'm hoping that
being aware of this will help me not waste
quite so much time with them now. These
really hard ones seem to be a little better,
because they are frustrating enough that
I don't feel like doing more so much. It
was kind of unusual that I put one down and
came back. I was really tired at that time,
but still. And I used the word "addicted".
That implies there is some harm, and in this
case I think I have been harmed because I
have spent too muh time with it when I
should have been doing other things. Real
addictions can hurt in other ways, like making
you not get enough sleep or exercise, or
interrupting work. I've got so much email
that it's getting to be a problem like that.
And then there's reddit. I've already talked
about how reddit has the gambler's reward--
it won't always pay off, but will sometimes.
Something like that will really get you hooked.
TV can be like that, too. You'll keep going
through garbage because once in a while it
will pay off. Man.
Happy D-Day!
Must be a full moon or something. I wasn't
sure what to make of it. In from of the Schnuck's,
there was a car that was mostly up on the curb,
with back end up against a lamppost, facing
against traffic. There wasn't anything special
about the road right there, so I don't know
how they might have spun out and ended up that
way. I didn't look too close, but I didn't think
it was bashed in any from hitting the pole.
Didn't call anything in. Didn't pull over to
check. Too weird.
Went to Doc Watson's to see Tom Dick and Harry.
Saw a guy passed out (Steve). Sitting a couple seats over.
At first I only saw some leaning over and I thought
they were just kissing, but more folks went over, and I saw
he was just passed out on her shoulder. There was
some girl, tall, kind of cute and, um, friendly. Talked with
a lot of people. One guy she danced with kept
hanging out around her, and eventually they kicked
him out. There was one guy who came in pretty late,
Sitting over to my left a little ways. On the
last song he gave out a yell. Sounded like it
was right in my ear. And after that, he kept
yelling for them to play another one. I've never
heard a cover band do an encore. Not this time, either.
But as the siren was leaving, she told this guy nice
to meet him. See you shelley, or something like that.
And John Roth, the singer guitar player guy, was sitting
by himself off in the corner, eating his food. Kind
of made me sad. I kind of wanted to talk to him,
but he chose to be off by himself. I had actually
eaten by myself like that in a bar with a bunch of
people around, so I guess I can relate. But like
Epicurus said, that's the life of a wolf or lion,
not a man.
I had gone out to Borders because the web site they
were open till 11 one weekend nights. Lies. They
close at 10. Got there ar 5 till. I wanted to pick
up a sudoku book that I had already scoped out,
but I was thinking I might be able to hang around a little.
I didn't complain to the cutie, though. They seemed to
be rushing to get everyone out.
So the sudoku puzzles are supposed to be the guy's hardest
level. But he says in the intro, if you have to make
a lot of marks to figure it out, you're being too
mechanical and you aren't understanding it. And
no guessing is necessary. OK. I'm not sure about
that. It sure didn't seem like that in the last
bunch I was doing. I've done one puzzle, and I
didn't have to write down the possibles. It seemed
like these are going to be hard from how few number
they start with, but I don't know. I think it's
not great to be getting into this habit again.
Maybe I'll be able to lay off if it gets boring.
Happy Tiananmen Square Day!
My mom is such a farm girl. She was born on a farm
and left when she was still little, maybe 7, but
has these mysterious gardening abilities. My yields
on the wheat sprouts have always been low, maybe
20%, but the one batch I made when my mom was here
that she tended a bit (adding water when it needed)
was like 90%. I don't know what the deal was. Then
then next one I did by myself was back to my usual
20%.
Argh. So it looks like they are finally going to
try to cancel my government health insurance.
Great timing.
I did go for a second day in a row without eating
meat, to see that I could do it. Then after midnight,
I had a hot dog. I have lots of bits of meat that
need to get eaten, so it wasn't going to last long,
but maybe I will try to buy some meat substitute
items to replace things.
I got to the section on beans. They are musical because
of some indigetible sugar forms (oligosaccharides). This is different
from onions which have chains of fructose that we
simply can't break down but will break down from
cooking. Just about the best you can do for beans
is to remove the sugars by soaking, but that also
removes water soluble vitamins. I'm sure the beano
product has enzymes for breaking them down, and
that might work. Also, it looks like soy milk
probably has those sugars, so that isn't necessarily
a complete improvement over regular milk for my mild
lactose intolerance. Soy also has the issue of phytoestrogens,
which might be a bit of a cancer concern.
Only single payer government health care can work.
If independent insurance companies continue to
be part of the picture, they will make the paperwork
burden too expensive, and any government involvement
in paying for healthcare won't work. Of course,
they have enough money that they will keep themselves
alive, so they will ensure that government healthcare
will fail. And it's possible that the government
will do something, and it won't fail immediately,
but it will eventually, which is something the
insurance people can live with. The problem is
that it is a big burden on the american economy.
One can at best hope for a technological deus
ex machina. Possibly computers (and A.I.) will
contribute unexpected solutions to the problem.
The biggest problem is the overhead from dealing
with many payers. Specifically, with the insurance
people, every little charge is itemized, whereas
with the single payer systems everywhere, you
just make one big bill. The difference between
the two ways of doing things is simply huge.
And it's a lot more work with lots of people
keeping track of the charges for each little thing,
and whether each little bit is paid. It's part
of why the U.S. just pays a lot more than everyone
else. But it's that kind of thing that can be
improved by better computer systems. Recent privacy
concerns have multiplied the money that the insurance
leeches can suck out of the system, too. Interesting
coincidence, that. OK, but why does it have to
fail with anything but single government payer? If there
are people who are trying to make money, they won't
pay for the expensive people unless forced to, and
they will always find ways of getting out of paying
if they can. If the government is going to guarrantee
health care for everyone, they will be left paying
for the expensive leftovers, while the insurance people
pay only what is profitable, statistically. But that's
how the U.S. government has pretty much been working--
private profit and public loss. It just doesn't seem
like that can work for very long for everyone. A lot
of rich people are doing well, of course. We'll see
how it goes. One thing that isn't really factored in
is that the U.S. is a nation of gun owners, and they
may just eventually get pissed off and snap at some point,
altough it tends to be individuals who snap, and that's
ineffective.
Argh, so that was a bad sign. Yesterday, I had slept fairly
well, comparatively, but I got up at maybe 6. Then I
took a nap at maybe 1 or 2. The first I looked up
was maybe 5 something, but I went to sleep again,
and then got up at maybe 8:30. That's just pitiful.
Wow, they overrode the veto on the guns in bars law. Trippy.
I come back from kung fu class, and my feet hurt.
I walk kind of pitiful. Some of that is that the
gout was acting up, and I think the exercise aggravated
it a bit.
The notion of a dictator creator is clearly just
a silly fabrication in the minds of primitive
people. A tribal or possibly city level dictator
is just about the only system of government
they could know about. so it's pretty natural
that that's just about the only way they could imagine
for the universe to work. So it's more ignorance
and lack of imagination or experience than anything
else. I have some trouble that the whole substitute
sacrifice thing makes sense to anyone, too. It doesn't
really fit with an omnipotent being, unless you just
are tied down to some limited concept of his personality.
Someone must pay. Why is that, exactly? It doesn't
make sense to me, and I can only guess that people
at some point just accept that it's the way it is,
and maybe have no reason to question. I don't know.
It's perfectly possible to have conflicts. I might
love someone, but know that they don't want to hear
from me or be with me. My conceptualization of love
is that it is actually several different desires together:
to be with someone, to communicate closely with them,
and to help them. And since they are different, they
can conflict. Specifically, if they want not to
be with you, then avoiding them helps them, even though
it conflicts with your desire to be with them.
Some people, I think, are more about doing things
because of how they feel. Feelings are very important
to them. Not to everyone, though. I think to some,
it would be a long bigger deal to be frustrated like
that. It might seem cold to just dismiss the feelings,
and make them sad. I don't know though. I'm not
so good at understanding those emotional folk.
Wow, I haven't eaten any meat today. That's really unusual.
I can't remember the last time. Generally, if I eat anything
at all, it will at least have some meat. But I had a bean burrito,
and some watermelon and a banana. I guess it was just enough
and I didn't feel like any more. The fruit is stuff I'm
trying to finish off left over from my mon's visit.
I've got a bunch of milk to drink, too. I need to go
find some veggie patties. Unfortunately, it seems like
they cost as much as meat, so it doesn't seem like there is
a lot of advantage to eating those.
I got through the section on wheat. They did mention having
green wheat, as it's kind of sweet and moist. So my desire to have
what I was calling fresh wheat is not unreasonable, and some
people somewhere like it.
The money I took out is disappearing fast. Funny thing, though.
I took it, out, and the market went up, so I still have the same
amount of money in there. Actually a little more. Though of course,
it would have been a good bit more if I had left it in. Whatever.
I should probably just get a job.
And the Mensa annual gathering is in a month. But I think I really
would feel bad about spending money to stay in a hotel for six days.
And I'm not so big on conventions, in general. So many people
packed together. It's not really my thing. Probably wouldn't
be worth it to me personally, though without going I'm not
sure I would know. I had been thinking I might go, but as it
gets closer, I'm not so into it. Plus, the hotel wouldn't
be the one of the actual convention. I really like to be
able to go up and take a nap or a break at any time. Going to
the hotel at the end of the day isn't even close. Spending
a bunch of money right now as uncertain as things are probably isn't
a good idea. When I looked at the schedule, I really didn't see
a lot of stuff that looked super interesting.
Happy Kalends of June!
Can't sleep. Weirdness with my bank. I've been trying
to get some money out from my stocks this week.
Shorter week so I lost a day. Put sell order in
on Tuesday, and it wasn't, what was the word they
used? maybe reconciled till Wednesday, so somehow
they money wasn't available in the cash account of
my investment company til Thursday. But that was going
to be OK, because they said very clearly that an
Electronic Transfer would be available as soon as the
same day. I guess. Somehow it wasn't quite. It
did seem to be posting on Friday, though. And I checked
Friday morning before hours (like maybe 6), and it had
transaction posted for that day, and the money was added
into the available balance, though it wasn't part of
the current balance because that's the end of previous day
balance. Great, fine, it should be there Saturday, and
luckily they do open on Saturday. So I check at maybe
midnight or so Saturday morning, and things are completely
not fine. The transaction is no longer listed. It's
not in the available balance any more, and mysteriously
two new charches have come out of it, dated from like Tuesday
and Wednesday. And of course, not in the "current balance"
which again, is supposed to be close of previous day balance.
Grr! So, like, I'm not going to have any money,
and I won't be able to go see Melissa. Not happy. I bit
of tossing and turning. And then I get on match.com cause
I'm feeling lonely. And they have updated questions, so
I fill stuff out and update things. Eventually, at maybe 5ish,
I check the bank again, and suddenly the transaction is back,
and it's back in the available balance, plus it's part
of the "current balance". So they've got some kind of weird
nightly batch running somewhere that updated things. I don't
know where that is exactly--I know my investment company does
some kind of batch nightly for updates, so it could be something
with them. But overall it's not giving me warm fuzzy feelings.
OK. I was checking the investment company balance, and it had
sort of looked like it had held onto the money until it
appeared in my bank account. It was showing up sort of unresolved.
So there may well have been some
kind of clearing going on in the middle of the night. Also,
it looks like they gave me a penny's worth of interest as the
money say around waiting to move on Friday. Weirdness.
Happy Memorial Day! Happy Towel Day!
So I finally asked Melissa if she wanted to talk
some time when she wasn't working. I didn't really
ask it in a kind of persuasive way to get her to say
yes. And I knew she was too nice to just say no.
She said, well I know her schedule, and she doesn't
have any time. But she hasn't been sleeping.
That's really what I was thinking. If she isn't sleeping,
then instead of her just lying awake, we might talk.
But she said that even if she can't sleep, she's trying
to. Oh well. If she had wanted to, I probably would
have already known, and she wouldn't have made excuse
had she actually wanted to. So that's that. I needed
to at least ask.
A survivor. So I was washing the dishes. I don't really do
that very often because I tend to just rinse and reuse.
It must have been at least a week. I found in the drain
one blade of wheat that had been growing there it must
have been quite a while. the green part was more than
for inches long, and there was a strand of root hanging
down that was also about four inches. Living in the drain
of the kitchen sink. I think I'm going to need to try to plant
it out in the garden. A real survivor.
On Friday, as I was leaving to go to temperance,
across the street, there were these birds just
walking up the sidewalk. A pair with several little
babies. Just walking along. I didn't know if they
were ducks or geese. They were kind of big,
and they had some colorings that I just wasn't
sure about. I thought I should take a picture,
but I didn't know how to take a picture yet on
my new iPhone, so I didn't. I just looked on
the web for different breeds of ducks and geese.
They were Canada geese.
So my dad had an attack of gout in his toe.
Went to the emergency room because he couldn't
sleep. It does hurt.
I think my squash plants are just getting eaten.
The one that had survive had had several leaves
and looked pretty healthy, but a couple days later
it was gone. I never saw one wilting, they just
were gone. And I think I saw a slug sitting around
that area. I tried planting some more seeds, but
if they are getting eaten, then there just won't
be so much I can do. I don't know if we have any
stuff to put down for the slugs.
Well, ok. I just went toAsk Dr. Janice.
She showed up on the meta cognition email list and
mentioned her blog. Just joined mensa. And her
recent post talked about how hard economic times
are good for finding love, and I wrote a comment,
because that seems to be right for me personally,
and at least I'm considering it now. I haven't
had any luck right now, exactly, but at least
I'm thinking about it.
Sat next to the guy Eric who was really into music.
Possibly did DJing, but was into vinyl. would not
compress music. And the cop who hang's out there is
named shawn.
I don't deserve breakfast in bed everyday. I don't
want to live like a mule on a trail ride.
So the problem with synching my iPhone was just that I needed
to update the itunes i was using on my laptop. So that's
good to know. My stuff is on my old laptop and I need to get
it going on my new laptop, because my dad wants borrow it
for the trip they're going on. No telling if it will make it
back. A computer of his just broke.
So I just saw David Brooks talking on Charlie Rose's show.
On the torture stuff. I didn't quite get the deal. So, the
early Bush program had said torture was alright. And you had
Abu Ghraib. But this is the part I didn't know--they changed
their policy. I guess they didn't ever really say, and they
always wanted to look tough, I guess. Bush kept saying they
don't torture. The part he was leaving out was "any more". That
used to be the deal, but they changed it. I guess I missed that
part. So Obama basically has the same policy, but he's being
a little more clear about it.
More frustration. I just finished Call of Duty World at War
and no zombie mode. I checked it out on the web, and sure enough,
it's not available on the wii. That's weak. But it has the point
and shoot which the other systems don't have so I guess that's
something.
Now I'm sad. All the squash plants that came up
are gone, except for one. The old weeds that were
there before are taking over. I guess I won't have
much of a garden.
The iPhone has some features missing that I was expecting.
It doesn't connect to my computer, so I can't put
all my songs on it. And it can't use a bluetooth
keyboard. I'm not quite used to the touch screen
keyboard, and it never would be as fast as
a real keyboard. I get the feeling that apple
wants to make sure you have to have other devices
too, that this won't be enough for you. Oh well.
I need to get used to it.
Spent a bunch more money. Not good to be spending money
when you don't have any coming in, but it could have
been worse. I avoided taking any more out of the
bank like I was thinking I would do. I would have needed
to do that to buy the propane burner to fix the
gas grill, but I decided to just not get that right now.
It's been something I've been putting off because
I have to get out grill and measure the size, and that
little extra bit of effort was enough for me to put it off.
So I decided to hold off on that and just go get
the tomato plants. It's already really late to be doing that.
I really should have gotten that earlier. And I was thinking
$350 per plant, and they had some for that, but I saw they
also had little things of much smaller plants with a bunch of them,
so I got like 8 plants for that price. We'll see how that
goes. I guess I need to use miracle grow at this point.
Then I got some food. I got some lunchmeat, and they had
a big thing of bologna for one dollar. I think I've
tried it and it's pretty terrible, but for a dollar, I just
can't say no. Did get some chicken. And some soy milk.
This was all at aldi's. I really don't like their soy milk,
but I needed something, and I didn't feel like I was going
out to another store. And then I was out of gas, so I
had to fill up. I didn't think it was that low, so it
was an unexpected expense. $20 got it to the top notch,
though not quite full. So I spent all of the small bills
I had. And I didn't get a new loaf of bread, so I'm
going to need to go get some more money and buy that,
but maybe I can hold off. I'm also trying to hold
off on selling some stock, but I'm going to need to
do that pretty soon. I almost did today because it was
up at the start, but I just saw that it went back down.
So that's probably good. And holding out a while is
probably good.
Numbers in English have a disadvantage. It takes
a bit long to run through them because the sounds
are pretty complicated. And having "seven" with two
syllables messes up the rhythm. In _Outliers_ dude
suggests that the asian number system where they are all
one syllable gives them a slight advantage in math,
which adds of for them over time. In sudoku, just
running through the nine numbers in my head kind of
can be noticeably rough. So just today I've started
using the alternate number sound system that I have,
and it seems to help a bit. It gives me a chance to practice
it, and make it more natural. I'm hoping that helps me
out. tanamaralachakafapa. And it has a nice rhythm
so that I can run through it pretty fast. But I don't
have a lot of puzzles any more. I've got a few sudoku
triples that my folks cut out of the paper. I've got
about four of those left. Each one has three puzzles that
share a single square of nine, but they are skewed a bit,
so I find them a little visually unpleasant. seems like
I always make a mistake because of that.
Wow, that hurt. Spent a lot of money today.
Finally got an iphone. And probably it wasn't
good that I didn't pay cash. Yesterday I
would have had enough to pay cash, but I
spent enough that I didn't quite have it.
I considered going to the bank to get just enough
to cover it, but I wasn't sure how much it
would be, and other stuff was going on,
so I didn't get to it. But that meant I
had quite a bit of cash, and when I have
a lot of cash, I have a greater chance to
spend it. Part of what was going on was
that I had a flat tire, so I had to get that
fixed, and since I didn't get to the bank,
I didn't have enough smaller bills, and
I had to break a hundred, which is generally
a bad thing, because it's those smaller bills
that get spent so easily. Right in the
shopping center with the tire place is
a radio shack, and I was needing to get
a midi cable, so I went there. The midi cables
were about 13 bucks, which isn't so bad,
but I saw that they had microphone stands
for about $20. I've been wanting to get one
for a while. I've got this super neat bit of
technology that I got a while back that I
just haven't been able to to use right because
of little things that I've been missing.
It's kind of a guitar effects box, but it
has a thing where you can plug in a midi device,
like a keyboard, plus a microphone, and it
will digitally record the inputs, or let you
connect it in to a computer. Sounds neat.
Actually, I'm not positive what all it will
do. But to play guitar and sing with a microphone
at the same time, I pretty much need a stand.
So there you go. And the microphone too is
a bit of an issue. The thing has the little
three wire connector thing. I'm not positive
what that's about. I saw that radio shack
had an adapter, and the adapter changed from
a quarter inch to that connector, but it also
changed the impedance. I'm guessing that there
is this big electrical difference between the
two kind of microphones. The fairly cheap microphone
I have will plug into a computer, and I bet
that's not the right kind of thing for this.
That adapters was like another $20. Ick.
We'll see how it goes. So I have a musical
keyboard that I believe has midi output, but
I'm not positive the midi works right. It
may be that the cable I had was not the right
kind. The connectors fit, but it seemed like
it was a cable for a computer keyboard, but not
specifically midi. I'm not sure if I've ever
gotten it to work. But I'm not sure I even
know where that is, so I really need a new cable.
And I think it's possible that maybe the midi just
doesn't work on this keyboard. I may be thinking
of an older keyboard that I had. Maybe this one
doesn't even have midi. I should check that too.
If this doesn't work, there's another keyboard that
I've been looking at. That might be better anyway,
but that one has weighted keys, and this doesn't.
It makes a big difference in playing if the keys
don't feel right. Anyway, so I have some musical
stuff to play with, now.
So my back has been hurting. And I don't know what
has done it. It's been a problem since Wednesday
I'm guessing it must have been something from a couple
days before that. It seemed OK the eveing before
at kung fu, though I felt tired that day. Quite
bad on Wednesday, and maybe a little better on
Thursday, and I went to kung fu, but couldn't
really do anything, though I did learn the
new Fanzi chuan moves. Since then, it's been
getting better a little slowly. It seems worst
on the right side, and the thing that is
the worst is trying to lift or kick with the
right leg. The thing that has been a problem
in the past that I think must be the issue is
that I tend to not keep my hips level and my
back straight, so I get out of alignment.
The worst is that I will lie on my side
propped up a bit so my back is bent. I
do this because I have my computer me next to
my bed, or my laptop sitting next to me on
my bed. I also sleep on my side quite a bit,
which also keeps it out of alignment. It
might have been something with that. And I'm
afraid my matress is starting to have a dent
in the middle. That was a problem with my
old mattress, and I got a new one a couple
of years ago, but maybe it's starting to have
trouble. That would suck. But pain sucks.
I also have a couch here that has some kind
of issue such that it seems to hurt my back if
I sit in it. The cushion is soft or something
or the springs are worn out, and it isn't level anymore.
Really need to do something with it, if I knew exactly
was wrong with it. And I'm thinking about it.
Lately I've been sitting cross legged, but it's
not fully crosslegged with both feet underneath.
It's what's called "half-lotus" with one foot
on top and one below. Seems like I always
found that a little more comfortable, but
it seems like maybe it makes my alignment a little
bit off. I just tried sticking my legs out in front
and raising the footrest on the recliner here, and it
seems a little better.
And I was doing quite a bit better, but
I had to mow the yard today, and that wasn't
great for it. Also the walking around.
And maybe the sitting wrong was an issue.
One thing about the back pain is that it's
giving me a bit of a motivation to eat less
right now. Some of the deal has to be the extra
pounds. It's enough that it's not comfortable
for me to lie on my stomach, so I have to lie
on my side if not my back, and I was thinking
that might be an issue. The extra weight just
in general can't help. So sitting with the
pain, I feel much more like not eating. Plus
it's been harder to get up and go eat stuff,
so I can more easily skip eating. I hasn't
come off particularly fast, but it's something.
I think I might be down a small bit.
And maybe it will give me some momentum.
I also haven't felt like going out to buy
any food, which helps. I did go out and
spend money today, and I went to a Fresh Market
in the same shopping center as the radio shack.
But I was looking for some tea wurst which they
didn't have. so I was able to leave without
spending anything. If they had had that, I
would have tried a pound of the German bologna
that they had. That was the other thing I
went there for. Luckily I was spared. I
remember in Germany there was some kind of
cold cut that they had that I really like that
was pretty close to bologna that I don't think
I've seen. I miss that stuff, whatever it was.
I have been eating a lot more like that. I've
been getting sourdough and putting butter on it
and eating in real european style. Unsliced bread.
I'm finding that sliced bread isn't always quite
as nice as people seem to think. It makes it
easy, but easy can make you eat more. If you
have to slice a bit to eat more, maybe you
have a bit of space where you don't need to have more.
And the more american way is to just make a bunch
of stuff, and then eat it all. It can happen
then that you make a lot more than you really
want. Skinny people are able to just not finish
it if it's more than they want. I don't know
how they do that, and I can't live like that.
I have to finish it, even if it's way too much.
That happened last night. I had the Island club.
David asked me how it was, and it was good,
but he said he wasn't able to eat it all.
It was really an american portion. They even
put egg on their club. Decadent. Or if you
want a nicer word, prosperous. I have some
tuna salad I'm finishing off. I'm out of bread,
so I'm going to have to go get some. But I
can at least hold off until tomorrow. I got
some food a week ago, and I bought a box of
fried chicken with it. Gobbled that up.
Probably that kind of thing is why the pounds
aren't flying off quite as fast as they could.
But I feel prosperous.
Wow, so I went out to the garden. Actually,
I was checking on the wheat sprouts. My second
batch was in good shape, the sprouts weren't as
tall as I let them get in the first batch,
But I decided to pull them out at this stage,
because some of them were growing great, and I
guess the rest were just dead and rotting,
so as not to let the rotting get any further,
I decide to just pull out the good live ones,
shake them a bit, put them in a bowl, and threw
out the rest. And I emptied out the last of
the old wheat, which is almost 10 years, so
I figure it's good to be done with it. Now
I have a nice 5 gallon water jug thing with a spigot
because that's what my brother gave it to me in.
Kind of a nice way to give two gifts--make the
container also a nice object to have. For Cliff's
first marriage I gave them a little bronze deva
statue (it might have been buddha-ish, I forget)
wrapped in a purple tapestry. Sort of a philosophical
gift. But I had the wheat to go give out to the birds.
And I didn't pick out sprouts, just really the tall
healthy ones, so I tossed some of them onto the
garden. But I got to look at the garden, and
I noticed that there are a bunch of squash plants
that have come up. Those are really big sprouts.
There is some corn coming up, though it's not
quite that much. I can't really tell about
the spinach, there's a little that might be right,
but I don't know, because there is also some weeds.
The bed with the tomato seeds is quite a mystery
to me, because there are a bunch of little tiny
sprouts, but that could easily all be weeds.
One other thing is that I definitely also have
wheat coming up in the places where I put it.
It looks pretty much the same as grass. Wheat actually
is a kind of grass. It actually grows better than
grass, but it's a little thicker. I mowed today,
and one section where I've been feeding the birds
is actually a thick patch of wheat, a lot taller
than the other grass and thicker. So, since
I actually had stuff growing, I had to water.
I think that's the part of gardening that
I hate the most. I only did it for a few minutes today.
I didn't have my ipod--that might make it doable.
But just sitting there with the hose seems like
such a terrible waste of time, and then you have
to do it at least once a week--or maybe every other
day. It's not hard, it's just too boring and
busy work. I have hardly the initiative to always
do that kind of stuff. And today I had mosquitoes.
Blech. I'll use repellant next time. I wasn't
expecting to do more than just go and throw
out the wheat. I'll see how it goes. If I am going
to get good about watering, then I need to plant
more wheat, because that was the problem with it.
Happy Ides of May!
So I've got some wheat sprouts. Actually kind of tasty.
Kind of sweet. Not quite like alfalfa sprouts yet.
Not even an inch tall and already mostly green.
Possibly I need to be keeping them in the dark.
If I keep it up, I'll probably have a lot of experience,
since it only takes a few days. That's a pretty fast
turnaround to be trying and learning stuff. I haven't eaten
them all yet. I remember last time I tried they went bad pretty
fast and got moldy.
So I learned more about Melissa. She does Sudoku in pen.
She talked about some commercials she had been in and
some country music video she was in. And the one Bob
Dylan wanted her to be in, but paid less, and she had
to be naked, so no thanks. And she worked at TJ Mulligans
Trinity first as a waittress. She may have said that , but I
had forgotten. I knew she worked out at Mulligans 64. And she
said that the first time I saw her at Dan mcGuinness,
I asked for a Dr Pepper, but she remembered me from Trinity
that I drank Guinness. And I had kind of looked at her funny.
I don't remember that. It does sometimes happen that people
will remember stuff I've said that I don't remember. But
this was really nice. I feel bad that I forgot about it,
but it just seems so sweet that she had remembered me.
Even so, with all of that, I still didn't ask if she wanted
to talk some time when she wasn't working. There was some guy,
He asked if she was single, and she said yes. They had known
each other a long time. I think from Trinity. She worked there in
'98 till 64 opened. Some time after that, they were walking along
and I heard him say he should take her out some time. I didn't
hear how it went after that. But after that they were talking
about stuff, including some bit, seemed like they were talking
about someone else, sometimes you need to just say you're not
interested. So in that context, I didn't feeling like saying
anything similar to Melissa. Whatever. I thought I was getting
better.
Wow, I had two separate things I could do to go see people.
The monthly Mensa meeting was finally on a Monday night.
And there was the weekly Monday night meeting with Lana
and Briggite. And I slept for like 11 hours last night.
I'm really sure what the deal is with that, but whatever.
I decide to take a nap at 4. But then I just did not want
to get up and do stuff. So I just slept through both
of the things. Shoot. I'm not sure I really wanted to go
see the mensa folk, but still, I need to go see people.
There's one little Mensa girl that got recommended as
a Facebook friend that I really would like to meet.
Some other time maybe. Plus I missed the big season
finale episode of House. Whatever, House sleeping with
Cuddy and the morning after at the office. But I'm
getting to catch the end of the weird Medium arc where
there's this big serial killer and company that hired
Allison to shut her up. Not really that big a thing.
Probably would be better to miss this, but it's something.
Happy Mother's Day!n
Well, I bought some wheat at the whole earth foods or whatever
it's called. The place used to be Wild Oats, but I think I
did read that they were bought out. Lots of people there
they had a lot of deli stuff and pizza by the slice and there were folks just
sitting and eating at tables they had. The breed of wheat was hard
red winter wheat. That doesn't sound like really what I want to be
trying to grow here in the summer, but whatcha gonna do. Also,
it is possible that the kind of wheat I had that one time that
I really like is some other kind and I won't like how this
turns out when it's done. But I guess I should give it a shot.
I'm not sure how much wheat varies. The thing is, I know fresh
maize corn is so much different from dry corn. Of course, sweet
corn is also different from field corn, and I think my biggest
experience growing corn was field corn, which wasn't super sweet.
We'll see how it goes. Wheat is incredible cheap, though. The
price I piad for this stuff was probably ten times what a
real farmer would pay in a co-op, but even it was really cheap.
It helps to understand those third world people who live on
less than a dollar a day. Maybe I'll start baking my own bread again.
And maybe I should try to talk to my little farm girl friend.
I'm not really getting a lot of ideas for planting from the
reading. Maybe I'll try growing some sprouts. One thing
I saw that was interesting is that there are some plants
that have fructose chains that we can't digest but intestinal
bacteria can, so they give us gas. Raw onions are like that.
But when you cook onions, the chains break down into fructose,
so they get sweet. I think I had heard that about onions,
but I didn't quite have the whole story.
Wow, so there's a cougar out at the farm. They saw it down
by the cabin. I wonder how you get one of those. Sounds like
a challenge. Now I have a reason to always carry out there.
I need to get a better hunting quality gun. Maybe I should
finally get that .357.
Heavy. The Simpon's today just did a little story of MacBeth.
Homer did the tomorrow soliloquey. I didn't even remember where it
was from. But I think I got it this time. Now they're doing
the fountainhead. Maggie talking! I wish I would have recorded it.
It was Jodie Foster. Yummy. They also did a Snow White and
the Seven somethings, such that it avoided the Disney copyright.
I just watched the episode where Deanna's mother
goes catatonic. And they find out about a repressed
memory of D's older sister who died. Loss. I guess
everyone can relate. More like Start Trek, to me.
It just seemed like the movie just wasn't really
Star Trek. It had some approximation to the
characters from the orginal series. But come on,
a person with a father is a very different person
from that person without a father. Kirk was
supposed to be a bookworm in school I didn't see it.
They throw in something about how he has great aptitude
scores. I didn't see that either. I guess I shouldn't
get started. There was too much I didn't like about that movie.
But so many people liked it. Great reviews. I think
the deal is that it is probably good on its own for
the average person who doesn't really care about Star Trek.
I'm trying to characterize how I feel. Not disappointed,
really. They did something fairly good to most people.
But to me it violated the very notion of that universe.
The only way they could deal with the situation was violence.
What is that/ It was a crazy person, and maybe they had to,
but that's all they ever really tried. Mostly irritated.
I don't know.
So Super 5 was playing at Doc Watson's. I went to the Greekfest,
and sat around with the Mensan's but it was kind of boring
and I didn't really engage or talk much. Got to Doc Watson's
a little after they started. Got a sprite, and she asked for $2.
I didn't have a lot of change, so I didn't give her anything extra
right then. i guess I should have. Because she never tried
to refill it, and I went pretty slow, but eventually it
got to the bottom. Before that, Super 5 went on break,
and I talked to Chris a bit. He came over to talk to me.
I didn't really feel like talking. He seems to be hurting a bit
with no money. Talked about his ex. It didn't sound like he
is seeing anybody right now. No money. Having some issues
with using a nitrocellulose paint or something for the coating
of a guitar he's building. Keeps cracking underneath. Hard
to work with. In the second set, the glass gets empty.
And nothing. So I just get up and stand by the door and
shortly. Stiffed her. I guess. Probably not nice. I
was thinking of maybe getting some food, but not if I'm invisible.
Probably not really my place, anyway. I went there because
one time I saw someone who talked to me, and I was hoping maybe to find her
again. But I don't think I would recognize her. There was one girl
who I wasn't sure, might have been her. Maybe not. Looked familiar
but could have been someone else. Kept getting up and dancing,
but had trouble staying on her feet. The barmaid kept bringing
her back to sit down. Whatever. I haven't ever left Super 5
before the end of their gig before. But I wasn't especially
into it, in addition to feeling a bit ignored or maybe unwanted.
I am no gardener, but I planted all the seeds I have. I think an
ipod can make anything tolerable. I know it made it easy to get
through three years of maintenance on a big Java project. I may
still try to find some wheat an plant that around in available spaces.
I love the taste of fresh wheat before it has been dried out,
which is normally about the only way you get it. Still soft.
I should make a better effort to get it all the way. I doubt
seriously I'll get any tomato plants from the seeds, much less
tomatoes, so I'll probably go out and get some plants. I'm
very curious if I'll get squash plants. I used a little potting
soil for them, because that stuff will hold the water better and
maybe give them a better chance, plus it lets me know where I put
seeds down, so I'll have a better chance of telling them from
the weeds. That's going to be the trick, I'm guessing--knowing
which plants are the ones I want, and which are the weeds. I
have no idea what kind of luck I'll have with the corn, but
I think it's fairly easy to tell those plants. I tried planting
some spinach. That's just a wild expirement, and I have no
idea how that will turn out, if I will even be able to recognize
the plants and tell them from weeds. Plus it's such a shady spot.
Even if I get corn plants I don't thing I'll actually get corn, but
I think spinach at least has a chance because you're trying to
get the leaves, and if there is a plant at all, it will have leaves.
I actually grew spinach or lettuce or one of those in California,
but I let it get to seed--I didn't really know much about it.
Trying to put the stuff in, i saw that the beds are really not
quite ready. They were completely overgrown with thick morning
glory, and I'm sure I didn't get it all out, so it's probably
going to come back. It would be nice to find some perennial
that I could just put in there. We used to have parsley,
and that stuff was just great. I've really slowed down on my
reading. I finished quite a few things, and now I've got
stuff that I'm not quite so interested in, like the java compiler
book, but another thing that is sitting there is the book on
food and cooking, and i was just getting into the vegetables,
so maybe I should pick that up again and it might give me some ideas.
It's already May. I'm really behind, but I guess it's better late
than never. I know peppers are probably the easiest thing.
Even I have been able to grow peppers, though not as well
as I might. Don't really like them too much, but they're
something. And I've grown radishes, though not in this garden.
I find them tolerable. I actually like onions, and i've never
tried them. The big ones are probably out of my skill range,
but there might be some breeds I could manage. I think the
deal with onions is that they are so cheap to buy, and the
ones you grow aren't any better. It's not like tomatoes where
growing your own can make a big difference in the quality.
I hear carrots are pretty easy, but I hate carrots.
Ouch. Actually had a bit of headache coming
out of that movie. Too many problems for me.
A lot of silliness. could have been worse,
but it had enough things I didn't like to be
annoying.
Got some seeds. I got some tomato seeds so I'm
going to give them a shot. I'm not doing it right,
I'm sure, so I don't expect much. But they want
$3 a plant. Possibly reasonable, but I just don't
feel like it. I need to go back to get an element
for our gas grill, so maybe I'll get some.
Maybe the headache had a bit to do with it having
been a long time since I'd eaten. But not completely.
Man, the _Star Trek_ movie opens, and my unease
is increasing. The reviews have been very good,
generally, but still I'm hearing some things that
don't sound good. Roger Ebert gave it two and a
half stars out of four, which is about the lowest
of the bunch I saw. The more worrisome thing
he said was that it is space opera. I don't
like space opera. It's not science fiction.
The science is crappy, and they do quite a few
things in this that really break with real science.
And that kind of thing bothers me. Lately,
it's been bad. And I've been watching TNG instead
of the original series, which was a little better,
but even it is bothering me to some extent. The original
series had the characters, and I get the feeling that
the people who like it are liking that bit. Plus
it's a big adventure thing. I'm not so much into
the adventure stuff, but I'll see how it goes.
And it has time travel. I hate time travel.
It's stupid. It just annoys me. I'm really
afraid that I won't be able to get past that.
And I'm not in a very good mood now, so I
am really doubting that I will. Just thinking
about it is making it worse, too. I'm not
sure i will go see it tonight. I was expecting
it to open Friday and would go around lunch when
it wouldn't be so busy. And I really hate waiting
in line so going tonight probably won't work for me.
I'm just not excited about it.
I was thinking I was going to go out about now,
before going to kung fu, and get tickets, and
go buy some seeds and plants for the garden.
But I haven't. Maybe after. I think I've
done all the initially turning of the soil that
I am going to do. Pickaxe. Pretty tiring stuff,
that I spread over several days. I'm pretty
bad out of shape, I guess. It was actually better
yesterday when it was wet and rainy and overcast.
Today was getting hot. Unfortunately it looks
like the spot doesn't get much sun. It was before 4m
and it was already completely in shade, and probably
had been for a while. Not much will grow with shade like
this. So a Garden is probably pretty doomed, anyway.
We can usually get some tomatoes, but I tend to not water
enough to really get a big amount. And squash sometimes
does OK, but I don't really like squash that much.
I had been thinking corn, but with so little sun, there is probably
no way. And I remeber the wheat did something until
died without enough water. I could try that a bit, if
I can find some. I want to do some stuff from seeds,
and I want to soak them overnight. So if I can
go tonight, it would be good. But I don't know if
i'll make it out.
The swine flu epidemic. They're trying to quit
calling it that becayse some idiots are avoiding
pork because of it. Some Muslim country tried to
kill off all their pigs because of it. That probably
was that big a deal as the pigs would have only been
for the few non-Muslims, there, but still. And even
that wasn't too unreasonable because there was a case
somewhere of pigs getting that flu from people, so
it might have done something. And a couple hundred people
died from it in Mexico. But it's looking like it's not
going to be that big a deal. It was scary because
the people dying in Mexico weren't the babies, old and
sick people that are usually the only ones who die from
flu, but middling old adults. It's a new flu, so there
isn't any resistance. And the people who got infected
were people who got out a lot, so working adults. But
a report I saw from the McNeil Lehrer News hour suggested
that the problem was that Mexicans just don't like
to go to the doctor. You don't need a prescription
to buy drugs. So if they go to the doctor, it's usually
very far along. They didn't say whether the people who died
just never had gone. Now they've put on a big campaign
and they appear to be really stomping this thing out.
Still, tens of thousands of people a year die from flu.
Actually from flu related problems. I think that's
probably mostly from pneumonia or something that you can get as
a consequence. They're trying to call it H1N1 or something
like that. Those indicate some markers that they use to distinguish
different flus. If it's a combination that's been around,
people might have some antibodies against them, though
they don't work all that well. The show sent Ray Suarez
out to Mexico city. Their hispanic journalist. Seems
like he must speak pretty good Spanish, becuase he
always pronounces any kind of Spanish name with this
accent that sounds really authentic. But I don't
think I saw him actually speak Spanish, and a few of
the people he interviewed were speaking English. I
thought it kind of scary that he went right out into
the heart of what seems to be a deadly epidemic.
And he was wearing a mask for a bit, even though
seems like they've said those masks can't keep
out viruses. Hand washing. Expecially with those
little hand sanitzers. That's the big thing.
Then they talked about a bit of a sad thing.
Some places don't have water all the time. Maybe
it was water pressure and not so much plumbing.
Still, it's pretty sad not to have water.
The stomach pain wasn't too bad from the hot stuff.
There was a little bit. I think it wasn't quite as
bad as before.
Happy Cinco de Mayo!
So I ate another bowl of these "flaming hot"
potato chips. I got them with all the leftover
chips from the party after the tai chi day.
When I ate a bowl then, that night my stomach
really hurt for a bit till they were out of my
system, but that went pretty quick. I'm
not sure how much of it was that I drank
milk with it to deal with the heat from just
eating them. This time, some sugary drink seem
to work about as well, but I feel like a slight
bit of discomfort coming on, but that may just be
in my mind. I say that, but the whole point
of the red oleoresin capsicum that's the hot
stuff in peppers is that it causes pain.
That's actually the kind of stimulation that
makes people like it. I suppose people do
a lot things that are painful because they
get stuff out of it. Personally, I'm not
particularly into that, but what're you gonna do.
Just looked at the wiki. Capsaicin is the name
of the chemical. Capsicum means the pepper plant
genus. I refered to the oleoresin, which is
the term I've seen before, and I believe it
means the lipid extract. I've tried doing an
extraction of it to make some pepper spray stuff.
Probably the extraction pulls out other things, too,
so it's not quite the same thing as the pure
capsaicin. And the wiki says interesting. Birds
aren't affected, but mammals are, so it protects
them a bit from mammals, but not birds, and birds
will can distribute the seeds. I've cut back
on trying to turn the soil in the garden. Maybe
I should get back to it and put in some peppers.
Mom said squash grows well from seed. I was going to
try that. For tomatoes I have to have plants, and
I'm guessing I need them for peppers. My dad has
sprouted a bunch of tomato plants from seed, but
He started a while ago, and they are much more serious
about it than I am. We'll see how the hot stuff goes
this time. One thing that seems to help me is dark
toast. I think it's the carbon. One time I had a problem,
and I used activated charcoal, and that totally fixed me
up completely. So I'll see how it goes.
Eating the hot chips, I was watching the Star Terk episode
"Second Chances" that introduced the transporter duplicate
of Riker. He said he will go by Tom Riker, so I can call
him that. Transporter duplicates are kind of a great
philosophical idea for science fiction. One list I'm
on was talking about the concept identity and some
trippy variations on the transporter. Instead of
somehow breaking up a person's molecules, they scan
a person without destroying them, then make a distant
copy, and then kill off the original. Which kind of
seems silly. I personally doubt we would have transporters.
Kind of seems silly to me. One thing similar that wouldn't
violate the laws of physics would be to grab the data
representing a person and his brain state, stick it
in a compact form possible with nanotechnology--which
would probably be really small, I'd guess, less than a gram,
or maybe a milligram. A speck. Since it's so small,
you could shoot it out of a cannon or something, probably
even pretty close to the speed of light, and have some
nanobots with it that could build up an android with roughly
the persons shap to simulate them, and then when done,
send something back to reintegrate the memories. But
with that kind of technology, that's only one of many
possible things that could be done. Anyway, the Star Trek
episode. The Will and Tom totally didn't get along.
I think that was crappy writing. Something just so there
would be some conflict in the story. They are both
friendly people, and it would be weird, but surely
they could have nice to each other. I think it
would be great to have a duplicate. Kind of like
having a twin. And again, this violates what I
thought was the idea that the Star Trek would was
this great, happy place. I don't know if Gene was
dead yet by that time, but they sure were messing with
his universe. The new Star Trek movie is coming
out on Friday. I heard a bit that it was going to
be pretty happy and optimistic. In contrast with
a lot of the stuff that has been getting dark lately,
with the brooding anti-heroes and everything. I
hope it goes OK, though with the mood I've been in
lately, I won't be surprised if I'm not so happy
with it.
There was a bit though, with Deanna.
They talk about how Will wanted to work on his career,
so Will and Deanna didn't stay together kind of
drifted apart, but stayed friends.. Tom picks
up right where they eft off which was when they
were still really into each other and were planning
a future after a bit. They do a bunch of lovey dovey
stuff. And Will warns her that Tom would likely
make the same choices (working on the career).
And she has this thing that she doesn't want to get hurt again,
but she does slip into the romance thing. Then Tom
gets this long distance assignment, and wants to
get together in a few months. But no, it ends
up looking like it won't work. And there's this moment
with Deanna and she has this sad look. She kind of
blinks like holding back tears. I was kind of touched.
Anyway, I think it works out pretty bad for Tom.
He didn't really have a chance. He eventually goes
outlaw and joins a rebel group. He probably had to
deal with jealousy, too.
Another Star Trek that just got on my nerves.
It's the one where Picard falls in love with
this lieutenant commander Nella Daren who is
working under him in stellar sciences. She's
just so pushy and J. I just had this intense
loathing for her. Couldn't stand her. Could
barely get through the episode. Actually last night
I watched it for about 10 minutes and had to stop,
and I just came back to it this morning. And a little
way further along, I felt like turning it on again,
but I decided to just try to get through it. There's
some kind of bit in it, where she goes down to a planet,
and is stuck in a firestorm, and they lose communications,
and they don't know if she alive for a bit unitl after,
and Picard is like totally lost. He says he shut down.
The first time I saw it I remember thinking, new character,
they must kill her off. This time I was hoping that would
have happened, but no, she makes it. There's a bit of
weirdness about it. Supposedly there were 6 two person
teams, and they said they got 4 out, but two were left,
one of which she waws on. And then they are brining back
survivors, and there are like 5 people coming back, and
then 3 more, including her, and 8 people didn't make it.
So there was some kind of bit with the people I didn't
follow, or it could have just been a continuity error,
I don't know. So I'm in even a worse mood. And then
Nella and the Captain are talking about how he couldn't
put her at risk again, she she has to transfer. WTF?
They can't work it out? Part of the deal with Star Trek
is that they've worked through all the little psychological
problems and don't have hang ups anymore. So the whole
thing violates the ideals of Star Trek universe. It's
like when in the last Star Wars movie, or episode 3 or
whatver you want to call it, the Jedi start killing people.
That's just wrong. It bugs me. And i'm just not in the mood for it.
And there was this little bit in the discussion where
Picard suggests that they could still get together sometimes
even when they are apart. What's this? Picard being
clingy? I guess they knew that it wasn't really going to
happen and Daren seems to treat it like what it was,
which was freaking lame. She walks away with this
sort of disappointed look. But I didn't like her, anyway.
Somewhere in there, I watched the Star Trek:TNG
episode, "Ship in a Bottle". It's the one where
they have professor Moriarty come back, and he's
pissed that they haven't yet found a way to
bring him into the real world, and he uses
a trick to make it seem like he has gotten into
the real world. The trick is to alter the holodeck
so that when the captain and Data and Barkley try to go back
into the real ship, they go into a simulated ship.
And somewhere in there, the captain gives away
his command codes, so Moriarty takes over the real
ship with those. And then Moriarty has this girlfriend
and tries to get them to bring her into the real
world too, thinking that maybe that solution used by
the trapped folks will work for the real ship. And
then the captain fools Moriarty by having the
fake holodeck on the fake ship simulate another fake
ship and brings Moriarty and his girlfriend out
into it. And then they have that program just running on
a little computer--no longer even a holodeck just
a simulation on a computer. The thing that seemed
to make it worth mentioning, was that at the end,
the captain says that it's possible that reality
could just be a simulation like that. I think that
idea has been used in different places. Not too
long ago, I saw someone who said that it is more
likely that this reality is a simulation than a real
thing, just based on the possibility that once life
and technology develops, there will just be a lot
of simulations that get run, which will outnumber
real realities. One time I told someone that things
seemed to make more sense than they should. If that
isn't just a psychological thing, then that would
be consistent with a simulation, though probably
at the time I was thinking some other form of
created universe. I saw Dennett argue against
a simulation, talking about the computational
explosion involved with it. In immersive video
games, it's always very restricted and limited
where you can go. It's too hard to just be
open ended. That was a bit before some of the
things with bigger maps, so I don't know if it's
still that convincing.
I finished the book of Sudoku puzzles. Kind of
took it easy at the end so it took a little longer,
but the puzzles weren't very hard. Even the highest
level in this book didn't ever require me to write
down the possible answers. Just glad to have it done.
Don't know what I'm going to do next.
Happy May Day! Happy Kalends of May!
Been in an angry mood lately. Didn't think it would,
but even seeing Melissa didn't help. I think it
probably not so great that Josh was there and they
were kissing quite a bit. But I was expecting that
it wouldn't make much difference anyway. I had
said last week that I would come out. This week
she didn't ask, and I didn't say. So maybe it'll
be a chance for a break. I also haven't been
doing my forms so much, taking it easy on the arm,
so that might have had an effect on my mood. Whatever.
Anger happens sometimes.
I believe the guy in the linguistics lectures said
"text is not language". I think that's deep and
important. So much of AI seems to assume that it is.
At the tai chi day thing, Liz was demonstrating some
push hands with Michael Coplon. He kind of lectured
a bit on the concepts of Tai Chi. Press, rollback,
and I forget what. I wasn't watching too close because
the other were wanting to practice then. I like Liz,
and she always kind of opens up when talking to me,
though that probably isn't me. But she seems to feel
comfortable with me, which is nice. And she looked
extra cute in her little pink tank top. She doesn't
do the form. They do some kind of wild sparring.
One of the people from the tai chi class said they
thought Michael was terrible. I'm not really sure
what the issue was, though.
Happy World Tai Chi and Qigong Day!
La muerte peluda!
I was part of a presentation at U of M. We did
our Bagua tournament form, synchronized between the
four of us. I think it looked pretty good.
It may not have actually been our best. I personally
think I lost the synchrony of the steps, and it seemed
like I noticed David doing the kick at a different time.
But it was still pretty good.
Disturbing. I've been watching the simpons dvds in order,
and i just finished the third season, and wanted to put
in the start of the fourth, but i can't find it. grr.
i hate when that happens. i think i've looked in all the
places i keep dvds. it may have fallen somewhere. or
maybe somebody took it. but i don't have it. so i'm annoyed.
well, now i'm on puzzle 134. again, a few were already done,
but that's pretty far along. i really need to do other things.
I'm watching the evil slut bitch episode of Star Trek TNG.
There's this girl, magically empathic sex slut. Goes after
the capitain. Some kind of bonding or something. OK,
if you haven't seen it, there's supposed to be some kind
of thing where they get imprinting on someone, and she
has this arranged marriage with a guy, so she is supposed
to imprint on him. But she says she imprinted on Picard
first. It's just a story, but I don't believe it. I
think it's more likely that she's just telling a story
because Picard is into that pining romantic crap. He's
got that thing with Mama Michelle.
Felt like doing a bunch in this other book of sudoku.
at least a dozen were already done, but i got to 103,
so now I'm more than half through it. I guess I should
slow it down. do something else.
the arm is getting a little better. hopefully kung fu
didnt aggravate it too much. i was too weak on the
staff form, so Lao Shr told me not to do it. Did
the broadword and it went pretty well. I don't have to
use the other arm for it. I only used the wooden one,
just to be safe. I'm using ice now, which I didn't do to
start off, and it really seems to help.
Happy Earth Day!
well that sucks. Using the wrist-weights doing th e
bagua has messed up the muscles in my left arm.
really sore, and trouble when it's in a particular
position. in particular, I can't hold it over
the keyboard to touch type. at least right now.
it varies. i went to bagua and was able to do
stuff. had a riger balm patch and some tylenol
and had done some massage stuff. pressing down
on painful spots like i saw in the book _pain erasure_
it has worked for me in the past. worked to some extent.
not too well, i guess. but i dont know. i'm a little
afraid that pressing on it might be hurting it a bit.
and i dont how long this pain will last. That's
distressing. I've got the demostration on Saturday.
I kind of faked it a bit yesterday, and i should be
able to do at least that well, i would guess. but
it's not feeling as good as yesterday, so i dont know.
kind of stiffening up. it wasnt hurting to just been it
straight up, but now it is. it had been more a thing of
twisting it inward. just not fun.
Man, that was rough. I got my arm in a position where it hurt
pretty bad, and somehow I couldn't adjust it to be better
until the pain got so bad I felt sick. Nauseated, and maybe
the blood drained away from my head, or to it, however
that works. and i broke out into a sweat. had to kind of
sit for a bit, but it did pass, and i could rest my arm
on the counter and it was alright. I'm not sure
what you call that. maybe it was shock. I kind of felt
faint. It felt like the muscle must gave been pulled,
though i'm not really positive what it is. and i think it
must have been the tylenol that helped. it seems to
make it better for a bit, but it had worn off.
I got a pork butt roast. I was like 6 bucks for 6 pounds of meat.
Very fatty though. I'm a bit stuffed. i felt like something
hearty while I try to get better. maybe a cup of grease cooked
out. still plenty more where that came from. decadent, perhaps.
i'm just sitting here watching star trek tng season 5. there
was one episode that just seemed terrible. maybe i was in a bad
mood. the "science" just seemed so stupid. "the masterpiece society".
maybe they're all like that, but mostly i've been better at suspending
disbelief.
finished the book with 240 sudoku puzzles. pretty rough at the end,
but the third to the last i got without writing down the possibles.
mostly i had to do that and guess, though. nice to be done with that.
i've got a much easier book. maybe i'll work on that. it's on 60
out of 201, but they are a lot easier. i really should do other stuff,
though.
Finally got to the end of _Art of Seduction_. I've been
working on it fairly slowly for months, at least half
a year. And I guess my conclusion is that I'm just
not interested. Too much work, and it's about
pretending to do stuff, and just kind of sounds
unpleasant to do. I suppose my bias is a bit
intpish, where lying about stuff and that sort
of fakery just seems repulsive. It treats it all
like a game, and I just don't think I'd like that.
One thing in particular about the book was that
a lot of the examples, and the thing was almost
all about the little example stories, were just
fiction, and stuff happened that just didn't
seem very believable. Somebody will take these
big chances on things, and they work out great.
Like in a book. It doesn't seem like a solid basis
to talk about something. And I suppose a lot
of that stuff might work out sometimes, if you're
lucky. Maybe I'll look at it again, but like
I said, it just didn't sound very fun to me. There
was one little bit at the end--it said if two
people get together from mutual attraction,
it isn't seduction. Something about that's
a different thing, so that stuff didn't apply.
Well great.
It takes me a bit to recover emotionally, but I
think I'm doing ok this evening.
I got through the puzzles with the third of four levels
of difficulty. There were forty of them. The
difficulty was a little variable. The third to last
I got without writing out all the possibles, but
mostly I had to guess a bit. Then I did the first
at the hardest level of difficulty. Ouch.
I could hardly even guess any before I had to
write out all the possibles, then there were bunches
of combinations. only a few had been narrowed down
to two possibilities. By guessing among those,
I was able to at least narrow down some that led
to a contradiction--it was not enough to get to
the final solution like in the others, but I
was just able to make some progress. I guess I
was lucky with that. I don't know how the rest
of these are going to go, but it looks tough.
I've started using wrist weights in doing the
Bagua. That seems to be increasing my power.
And I'm getting pretty strong with the big broadsword.
I hope it's not just becoming external power, though.
It must require some power just to lift it and
move it, but I'm sure the idea is that you
use the momentum of the sword to move it around,
and to a large extent you are just guiding it.
Then again, I could be getting better. I just
solved the third puzzle from the hardest set
without writing down the possibles. So that's
17 more and I'll be done with this book.
I've generally had trouble looking for jobs in the
past. It's hard to go out and look when you don't
even really want what your looking for. And the
general business application programming I've done
hasn't especially been all that rewarding. It's
paid pretty well, I suppose, but that in itself
hasn't been super motivating.
So Doug has an office with a door at one of the places
he consults at. He shares the office with someone else,
but still. I've never had a door at any of the places
I've ever work. And yet Doug doesn't like going there.
Seems a little silly. Maybe I should try to have a place
with a door. Probably if I were to work as an actual
engineer, I might have a door. Little computer peons
don't get doors, I guess.
I hope I don't pick up saying "so" a lot. I'm watching
the Stanford lecture on mahine learning and the guy says
"so" a lot. I like to follow that with singing "a needle
pulling thread" whenever I see someone doing that in
real life. Just to point out the silliness of it. Not
a terrible habit, I suppose. It's better than "um".
But it's not as good as keeping your freaking noise hole
shut until you have something say. Anyway, in this lecture,
he talked about distinguishing benign cancers from
malignant cancers. No. You can have benign _tumors_
but not benign cancers. Nobody called him on it. I
guess that's fair. At least be a little respectful.
But a little later, he messed up Bayes theorem.
He wrote basically P(y|x)=P(x|y)*P(x)/P(x).
No, that ain't right. Like that, the P(x)'s cancel.
Obviosly wrong. The thing was, I couldn't remember
exactly what the right thing was--Bayes is a little
tricky. It should have been P(x)/P(y) or P(y)/P(x).
I always forget. I thing it's P(y) on top. But
he was sitting in a room full of Stanford students,
and nobody called him out and fixed it, or at least
said it was wrong or something. I think he keeps
the lecture notes on line, so it's probably right there.
Maybe nobody was really paying attention. The mistake
was bad enough--and it's easy to make that kind of mistake.
But somebody needed to say something. I got in
a bad move from the cancer thing, but this just really
pissed me off.
One thing I'm thinking of that should be the right way
to be the best possible student. One thing I tried
to do in classes was to take pretty heavy notes,
and then go back and rewrite them to review and expand.
I sort of tried to almost do it like dictation. But really,
I should just video lectures, and then go back and
transcribe stuff. I think the digital camera could probably
do an hour of video pretty easily. I forget. But that
would probably be the best way to study. I think they say
2-3 hours outside for each hour in class. That would
be about right. But in there, you are supposed to be
reading the textbook. I guess the most of the learning is
supposed to be from that. So there would need to be that, too.
And working problems is very important. I didn't do enough
of that in college. This professor does a lot of proofs,
and going through those proofs, and being able to do them
on your own is another important thing to be able to do.
For dictation, they have those little foot switch things.
If I do that, something like one of those would be good.
Happy Tax Day!
Emotional change is difficult. The changes have
to happen at the preconscious level. That is, we
have to change how our reactions work even before
we are aware of them. So it takes a kind of retraining
that at the minimum will take time, and in general
will take a sustained effort where we aren't even
going to be able to see our changes.
Happy Good Saturday!
I'm not so good at telling if girls like me, and I'm
not so sure that isn't a common problem. I also suspect
that girls have some natural tendency to be a little
mysterious about it, at least compared to the way
guys are completely obvious. And there are subtle things
about that. It draws people in if they seem uninterested.
Happy Good Friday!
It looks like David at Bardog also knows Clare.
I just watched a fourth season Star Trek: The
Next Generation episode "The Wounded". Some
captain kills some Cardassians. It has
a scene I had been thinking of where Chief
O'Brien say he hates what he became because
of them. Kind of sad and grim.
I gets it's emotionally rough what I keep doing
to myself. She got a little bit sick. She was
in the bathroom for a bit, and said that it
had not been good. And that she needed to
get insurance. She probably drank a little too
much on an empty stomach. Or something.
There were lots of cute girls around. Andrea
told me to talk to her friend Ellie and
we were sitting next to each other. Not
really much to talk about.
She has a brother named Andrew Edgar, whatever
it was. Mann, maybe.
She was a tiger,
got a BBA in 2005. And then, there was some
guy, didn't catch his name, who was like
a marketing manager for the tigers. She
put her phone number into his phone, and
really glommed onto him. Andrea took my
chair when I got up, and I was going to let her
have it, but she gave it back to me. I might
have been missing some of the forces involved in
that, though. There was a guy Brandon, a med student,
that Andrea was talking to. It was his Birthday.
And she got him talking with Nick, which
was someone she also liked. She admitted to
me that she was bad. There was a guy who seemed
to give me the right on fist or whatever.
That got me thinking of a question, and I
asked it of Andrea-- Where does a fist go
when you open your hand? i remember she
had said she liked intellectual types.
But she didn't feel like a trick question
in her condition. I didn't really go into
what was the context to what the question
involved. So I certainly messed that up.
But we didn't really have a connection.
i don't know what it is, but sometimes it
happens and sometimes it doesn't. It
can be handled better. Anyway, the context
was in the most recent teaching company
lecture on philosophy of mind (there
was an older one by Searle). It was
about a philosophy that has gotten more
popular of functionalism. The deeper
question involved here is what is the
relationship of the mind to the brain.
A person might say that the mind is
the brain, but that's probably not
quite right. You would like to say
that the fist is the same as the hand.
But when you open the hand, it isn't
a fist any more. And it would be tricky
and maybe not quite right to say that
the fist is something the hand does.
Probably something more like we call
a hand a fist when it is doing something--
when it's closed. So maybe it
could be that we call the brain a mind
when it is working in a certain way.
That leads to the question of whether
a computer could do something like that,
could work in the same way that we
are talking about.
I feel pitiful. I want to go see her. I
didn't send any advance notice, though.
And I have to get up in the morning, so
I've decided against it. Probably some of
it is just loneliness. And when she has
problems, I guess I worry. Girls in distress
I guess we can be wired to want to help.
I suck. But that may be more of a mood thing.
I had this thing where I had a little vision issue.
I guess it was kind of an aura like the start of
a migraine. And I hadn't eaten much, so I think
it was that, but I also had had a pretty tiring
bit of a workout. I did the sword form a couple
of times, and the second time, I was a bit exhausted
and had some trouble holding it up as much as I
should have. So maybe some lactic acid thrown in.
But that was significantly before the vision thing.
Maybe an hour. I don't remember it happening more
recently, though it might have, but I remember this
happening as a kid after a fairly brutal gym class,
with maybe running three miles or something. So
maybe it is more of an exercise thing. It might
also involve sleeping too much. Seems like that
used to give me headaches, and I've been doing that
more lately. I don't think I ever noticed a connection
with sleep and the migraine vision problem, though.
I get a little more about parsing and compiler compilers.
Something I don't think I had seen before is how
an LR parser uses a stack plus a state machine or
DFA (deterministic finite-state automaton) to do the
parsing. I may have heard someone mention it, but
I didn't get it. I knew or had seen that DFA's were
too week to handle parsing, because with a fixed state,
they can't handle things like nested parenthesis.
I saw that in a computer sciency textbook, I forget,
but I didn't get all the way through that one.
Maybe I should dig it up and finish it. It was for
one of the more intro CS classes. I wonder what else
it had in it. The DFA's are a classic way of
modelling a simple class of programs, but they
are only equivalent to regular expressions--like
I said, they can't handle nested things. One
thing about human grammar is that we handle
all sorts of nested grammatical thingies. I'm
not sure that we use a general stack, though.
We can keep track of several levels, but we
have quite a bit of a limit as to how deep
we can get before we lose track. Working memory
or something, so five or seven might be about it.
And that's a bit interesting because computers
with their super memory can and do handle a much
greater amount of levels. If they were to be
big language users, they could quickly start
talking in ways people would have no way of
understand, just because of this simple matter
of being able to handle greater nesting depth.
I was feeling in a better mood there for a little
bit. I think it has a lot to do with the old blood
sugar level or something. That's something I've
thought in the past, anyway. It doesn't really
seem to make so much logical sense, the way it
fluctuates.
I typed this out on this page from Stanford Engineering Aske The Expert
but then I didn't dubmit because I didn't feel like being the first person to comment.
The page was linked to on the Si Valley AI meetup group:
When I think about the question of whether computers can think and feel, I often get back to the question of whether people really would want them to do that. Human thinking and feeling is not reliable in the way we expect computers to be. It doesn't always go exactly the way you expect or want. For people, that can mean that some folks will come up with great new ideas, but it necessarily also means that a lot of people will just get things wrong. Society as a whole searches through the space of ideas. But so far, we haven't really wanted computers to share in that search. We have made them to be very faithful and reliable servants, and we have used a lot of artful technique to get them to be like that. Not having feelings has more than anything else just been a desired goal, not a lack because of some weakness in their substrate. There might be some who claim to be working to get computers to be more, but they are held up by all the work done to make them behave otherwise.
Wow, this video was awesome.
A couple of chicks fighting with light-sabers over a guy.
OK, it's a commercial for SABER, whatever that is.
But the blonde girl, Clare Grant, is from Memphis.
I'm trying to find out a bit more, but not getting
too much. She went to U of M. It looks like she
must have gone to White Station, but I don't know
for sure. Playboy Babe of the month November 2006.
Not naked though. She lives in L.A. now, but the
big question is if she ever gets back to Memphis
and if I know anyone who knows her.
She's done some kind of Indie stuff in Memphis
and has been in some MTV something or other
about the Memphis music scene. She's also into
sci fi, so I kind of wonder if she's been to MidSoouthCon.
I missed it this year though. It was a week earlier
than I was thinking so when I checked for it,
it was already over.
Well there you go. Doug knows Clare. It was Clare Johnson.
And she was dating Jason Grant. They broke up,
but she is using the name Clare Grant anyway.
She did go to White Station. They are actually facebook friends.
Was it cheating? I'm working through a book of
Su Doku puzzles, and I'm on a section with the 3rd
out of 4 levels of difficulty. I've already had
one puzzle where I just couldn't get it with
the absolute logic that I know, and I had to
use a kind of partial guessing strategy that
I have to use sometimes. I had narrowed things down
to where a lot of the squares have only two possiblities
and I just try one or the other using a mark, a line
under or over the choice--under or over lets me
try both ways. On this one, there was something that
happened after maybe two or three steps that caused
a problem, so I knew that that choice was wrong, and
I could go on from there. I hate guessing though.
I don't really consider that cheating, but I think
of it more as a failure. If you're good enough, it
seems like you should never have to guess. Then
I got to this puzzle and it was a similar deal where
I was stuck. But this time I went to a program
that handles a lot more strategies and rules than
I really get and use. It lets you turn them off,
so I can at least check if there is something that
I should be able to get and I'm missing. Because
I don't always know if I'm just slipping up,
or the difficulty is just such that I wouldn't
normally be able to get it. And sure enough,
with the strategies that I use, I wouldn't
have been able to get this one. There are a couple
of strategies that I don't really quite get,
that I've seen on there before, that I can almost
get, but haven't been using (x-wing and y-wing).
With those, I would be able to get it. I'm
guessing I'm going to end up needing them for
a lot of these in this section. I've got thirty
something more to go. And then there is even
a harder section. So is this cheating? I
guess it was more giving up. And I was getting
help, hopefully so I can learn something. Sometimes
it does happen that you will hit some problem
that you just don't have the knowledge to solve.
If you keep only to the things you know how to
do, you will be stuck and not be able to get it.
You can go look for someone with more knowledge,
or use trial and error, where you might try
something wrong, and then you will have to go
back and fix things. That's a pretty general
truth. One thing in this problem though is
that with the guessing, you don't necessarily
learn anything more general that you can use
next time. You might only find something that got
you through this one. So a lesson to learn
might be that getting help is probably a little
better. And I say it would be a lesson for
me because my personal preference seems to
be wanting to do it on my own, even if I
don't learn anything. That seemed to me the
way that was less like cheating. Something
about losing face from going to someone else.
The pride thing.
It was something that got me a bit discouraged.
I really was kind of useless, and didn't say much.
Melissa was talking with a friendly guy who
she must have known for a long time. He works
at the Rendezvous. I think he must have brought
her food on occasion, too. Anyway, she was
talking about her fibromyalgia. It helps her
to walk. If she sits still, it hurts worse,
so it's good if she keeps moving. And she was
saying that's probably a problem for people,
where they just take something and keep still,
and it gets worse and worse. But I ended up not
saying so much. she asked me what I was doings
this week, and I didn't really have much.
She said she could understand not doing much
for a bit, but she would have to start doing something.
I said I didn't think she knew anything about just
not doing anything, but then she did start talking about
someone who just got used to not doing anything.
Maybe her mom, I forget. But I got the feeling she
really didn't sympathize, or didn't like it so much.
I doubt anybody really would, though. And right
then she was sort of sweeping me out of the place,
and I got this extra little sense of distance.
I had been thinking I needed to ask if she wanted
to talk some time when she was not at work,
but I guess it's just as well that I didn't.
Having a bit more trouble getting through the
part on parsing. I do kind of get again that
there is some mechanical stuff going from a
set of production rules for a grammar, like in Backus-Naur form,
that describe a language to a parser, but I don't
quite see all the pieces like I do now
for a lexical analyzer. But I guess it won't
take too long.
Hmm. I did one more Su Doku puzzle-- one of this
hard set. But it went quick. There is one
sneaky rule that is pretty simple though it
is actually a bit of an advanced concept,
called unique rectangles. It's kind of
sneaky in that it isn't so much a logical
requirement because it depends on the convention
that a puzzle has only one solution. It
works by elimating a situation where there
might be two possible solutions, which might
not really be valid, but it works for the
puzzles they usually have. It's kind of iffy,
but it can be so easy that I use it a lot.
Hmm. She was shuffling me out, but I had asked
for my bill and paid it, and that to her always
means wanting to leave. I kind of feel a little
bad because last week on my birthday. I had
waited around a long time, and she never gave me
my bill. And then the last guy other than me
was leaving, and went to leave with him,
and I hadn't tried to get my bill, like I
was taking for granted that Melissa would
cover me. She does that a lot. And when I
was going, she said she would handle my bill.
It didn't hit me right then, but it got to
me later that I had kind of been skipping out
on it. Or I at least should have asked or
something. I really kind of felt bad about it
after. And I totally wouldn't be surprised if
it had bothered her just a little bit, though
she is really always so sweet about things
like that. And it couldn't really be about
the money, because i always give her a lot
more than than, and I bring her Starbucks,
and she buys lemonade for me. But it's
the consideration, and I don't want to
take her for granted. This time, someone
had gotten into the lemonade and used 5 of them
up. It made her so mad, and she said she
was going to text all the girls that work there.
Melissa just seems like a classic idealist type,
who just gets righteously angry when someone
violates her principles. But she's one of
the quiet, keep her feelings on the inside
types, also. As opposed to the ones that
wear their hearts on their sleeves (the EFs),
where you can always see what they are feeling.
The thinker types don't general have such
big emotional reactions, and that stuff doesn't
make as much difference, or at least it isn't
quite a matter of feelings. They (or maybe I
should say we) can be pretty nasty when their
principles are violated, but the feelings
are really such a big deal and they don't hold
onto them or identify with them, or something.
It's somehow a different kind of thing, even if
it sometimes looks similar. Able to laugh it
off, maybe. I don't know. It's not personal,
it's business. Something like that.
I made some pork chops a little while ago.
They are in the freezer frozen in pairs.
I have on occasion just cooked them complete in
the microwave, but it hasn't always turn out
as good as I might like. So I defrosted them
for about a minute in the microwave. And then
fried them in a pan. I did learn from _on food
and cooking_ that the browning from a pan creates
complex molecules that add flavor, and you don't
get that in the microwave. So I understand the
difference. With chicken, I'm happy enough
with just the plain taste. It's roughly equivalent
to boiling, and with chicken, that flavor is about
right. And a lot of chicekn dishes just use
boiled chicken, so I can be happy with just that.
With pork, it's just a bit of a loss. Maybe more
because there really are any boiled pork dishes
that I ever eat. Just about the same with beef, though
somehow, I can kind of be happy with microwaved hamburger.
And since I like raw beef, that makes a little more
sense. I like the pure taste of the meat. I guess
there's something different with pork. Anyway,
with the pork chops, I used a bit of oil. And the
oil has cooled off, but there is still some sitting in
the pan. It still has the pork flavor. Yummy.
I don't know if I should try doing something with it.
Maybe some hash browns or something.
Well, there's another level of failure in solving
these Su Doku puzzles. Before this level of
difficulty, I've been able to solve I think
all of the puzzles without having to write down
all the combinations in the squares. At this point
I'm finding that I have to use that fairly tedious
method. And it's not so fun. So I kind of think
of it as a kind of failure. I'll take some time
just trying to solve particular squares without doing
that. And even after I write them all down, if
I get enough solved, I'll erase the notes I have
and start with blanks again, though I just did that
and had to write corrected possibilities again to
get further. And some of the first wait for
writing the numbers down is a bit pragmatic, because
with too many combinations, it can be a little too
difficult to see what needs to be done. And in
some sense, doing this mechanical stuff seems
a little cheap. Or at least no so fun, even if
it works. And, what's a bit tricky, even if that's
what is necessary. To feel bad having to do something
that has to be done. I guess it's that kind of thing
that can make you want to give up and do something else.
I did make some hash browns. They were pretty good,
but they messed up the pan enough that the work cleaning
it was enough that I probably won't feel like doing that
again so soon. It's that kind of thing that makes me
use the microwave more. Having to clean up pans.
So I also tried making a hamburger patty. I defrosted
it a little in the microwave, and unfortunately, it got
cooked a little, so not a good start. And I guess I
didn't really get the pan hot enough. It's teflon,
so you're not supposed to really get it too hot.
But it's very old and mostly the teflon is gone,
so that's why the hash browns were hard to clean off.
Probably just the wrong pan to use. Anyway, since it
wasn't really hot enough, I didn't get enough browning,
and really the taste was not any better than just doing
it all in the microwave. What I did different with the pork
chop was to cook it long enouogh to sort of brown, but
with this thing hamburger patty, I didn't want to way
overcook it. Anyway, it wasn't terrible, but using
the pan didn't really do anything. Mistakes are good
to learn from, though, just as must as successes.
Well, that entirely sucked. I got a puzzle that I
got stuck on, and I tried it with that solver program.
And it could not be solved with the strategies I know
or the two i'm trying to learn (x-wing and y-wing).
I tried adding one more strategy that I can almost
get, and it worked with that. And then I tried to
follow what that strategy was doing (simple coloring)
and looking into it, it is basically equivalent to the
little guessing from two choice with marking that I
use some time. So for this one, I couldn't really
do better than that guessing. I suppose I need to
look through the other strategies, but it looks like
I might have to conclude that there are just some puzzles
where I just have to use a guessing strategy.
That seems to just finally change things.
But wow. I investigated the other strategies. There was
a nifty fairly simple one that I could have applied.
It was another tricky one, a uniqueness one. They
are calling it BUG--bivalue universal grave. It's
a pattern where there are just some possibilities
and you can eliminate some possibilities that would
make for multiple solutions. I'm not sure if I can
quite get it, but it might be a trick to learn.
Well. that was an interesting experience. I read
the chapter in the java compiler book about lexical
analysis. It had some computer sciencey stuff like
finite state automata, but I had seen that before.
But this time, it went some where that made sense.
I guess it makes some sense for a single regular
expression, or a computer program in general,
but it made extras sense for a lexical analyzer,
which has the bigger task of taking a possibly long
list of regular expressions and having a program
to analyze some stream of characters with them.
I also get why there is an automatic program lex
to create a lexical analyzer, because it is actually
a fairly mechanical process to create a program to
do the lexical analysis. At least an efficient one.
OK, a lexical analyzer takes a stream of characters
and breaks it up into tokens, which are like distinct
words in a computer language. One thing you don't
want to do is to run through every regular expression
in your list for the beginning of the list each time.
That's way too much work. You need to do some analysis
on your initial list of regular expressions so it's
more quick and parallel. It also makes me wonder about
the related problem in speech recognition of breaking
up a sound stream into words. That can't be an easy problem.
We use a lot of parallelism, and knowledge about
words, and it takes a long time to get, too.
Anyway, I'm not sure I could write a lexical analyzer generator myself
off the top of my head, as I didn't quite absorb
the algorithm, but I get the idea, and I at least see what they
do.
Happy April Fool's Day!
I finished _Meditations on Violence_ by Sgt. Rory Miller.
It got great ratings on Amazon. A lot of must reads.
I guess. Dude gets in a lot of fights. What does he
say? Hmm. You will freeze in a fight, so try to
learn to get out of it. Develop a reflex reaction that
might kick in before you freeze. There are several
levels of opportunities to avoid a fight. Don't be in
the wrong place, notice and avoid someone's intent to attack,
his opportunity, and at last resort, the actual movement.
He talks about some flaws in traditional training.
Real fights are very complicated, brutal, and fast.
There are different types of bad guys, predators
and hustlers. Some fights are about status,
but some are about predators trying to get stuff from
you, and they don't care. Adrenaline will mess you up.
I don't know. I suppose I haven't gotten everything out of it, yet.
Happy Birthday to me!
I finally finished Misnky's book, the _Emotion Machine_.
In some sense. I didn't read it very well. So many
starts and stops and here and theres that I probably
didn't get a coherent picture of it, and I didn't
get too much out of it. Of course, his stuff tends
to be just a bunch of ideas from him. I'm not
sure it's all that coherent on its own. I never
did get through _Society of Mind_ which seemed to
be the same deal. A lot of different ideas, and
not so much a solid book. Maybe I should look at it
again in a way more about extracting the main content.
This was more powering through to at least look at
all the words. I suppose I'm not that good a reader,
if I don't adjust myself like that. I sure don't
read as fast as some people say they do. But then,
the people that talk about reading fast never seem
to me all that bright, so I don't know if these people
are really getting the things they read. Of course,
that may just be me.
So I need to admit to myself that there are a couple
of things that I want to do first, and I'm just
not going to seriously look for a job until I do them.
Which is somewhat sad, I guess. But they are things
I want to do to see if I can handle them and like
them well enough to try and look for real work doing
them. So I should admit it, and then make a real
effort to get them done. I tend to be bad about
keeping things open and just playing without getting
them done. So I need to have things where I can
get to a definite finish point. Which is to say,
my general AI project that I've been wanting to work
on cannot be one of these do first projects, though
maybe I can be working on it in addition to looking
for a job after I have done my initial starting
up projects. And just studying compilers is too vague.
I can try to get through the dragon book, or the java
compilers book. Those are kind of long and slow, so maybe
I should skip that. Then again, I really think I
need to learn something about compilers. A definite
task relating to that would be to write a compiler,
which is the standard assignment for a compiler class.
There is a bunch of homework assignments I needed
to do for computer vision, but I need an absolute list
if I'm going to do something regarding that. That's
the way the class worked, and now I'm seeing how good
that was. I can just have a vague thing of doing
some computer vision stuff, though I do want to do something.
The two things I am definite on is that I need to
get Copycat working in clojure, and I need to build
a robot, thought I'm just realizing that is too vague,
again. I need to have a plan to build a robot
with specific software to do some specific task.
Well, at least it's good to be coming up with a plan.
Thinking about robots just now, I realize that the
most important thing is to be able to grab things.
People now often think about wheeling around, but the
grabbing is the most essential. Some sort of movement
surely is needed, and I need to decide how general
I want to be with that. In the robotics class, I
did learn a lot about robotics motion. But grabbing
specifically is a complicated action involving a lot
more than just motion. Anyway, I'll think about it.
And I need to write something for the iPhone, but
I need something specific.
The term Gladwell used for what Chris Langan lacks
is "practical intelligence" so I need to look into that.
David at Bardog (seems like he said his family name is Sharp)
was expressing admiration for Ayn Rand. Something about
the best philosopher ever, or something. I said I thought
it was oversimplified and suggests a certainty that isn't really
there, and that appeals to people. But it's been a long
time since I looked at anything from her, so I don't remember
much, really. Largely that I had a negative reaction, and
maybe from that initial bias, I've had negative reactions to
everyone who seems to like her stuff. But at least I should
try looking at what it's supposed to be, again. It seems
like a big libertarian thing. I don't know if people realize
that Alan Greenspan, the guy who probably more than anyone
else put libertarian ideas into practice, finally had to
admit he was wrong about all that. And now we have a major
depression to demonstrate how bad those ideas were. Of course,
people are really tied to their beliefs. Especially simpleminded
ones like these. That's just the nature of having simpleminded
ideas.
Looking over the wikipedia for Rand, I saw the term _magnum opus_.
I've talked about how masterpiece didn't orginally mean something
that extends a domain--it is a work that shows domain mastery
in a guilded craft, but should not show people up. But I
didn't think of the term _magnum opus_. That translates as
"great work". I'm gathering that it has a bit of the connotation
of being large--magnum kind of means great as in big. Also,
it doesn't necessarily mean successful. It is kind of an alchemical
term for actually turning base metals into gold, or making a philosophers
stone. So it doesn't even really seem to be a particularly real thing.
It kind of gets used for composers, like for an opera or something big.
I don't know if is a better word for what people want to say when
they sue the word "masterpiece" these days, but it is at least
a candidate to consider.
I got my Spring _AI magazine_. Looking through it, I saw
the article by the AAAI's new president. He's kind
of an AI robotics guy, into the soccer robocup as
a big general AI problem. And he's saying that instelligence
is largely a matter of constraint satisfaction. I
can go with that. Seems like the hardest part, though,
is being able to learn what the constraints are in
some situation or problem. So you in their kind of system,
you get to program in the constraints, i guess. Soccer
is a really tough sort of problem. Just being able
to get to the ball and kick it is an issue. And with
these trash can robots that they tend to use, it's
more a matter of bumping it than getting your foot
lined up to kick the ball. Still, they do have
some kind of humanoid robot that is supposed to be
a standard platform for the robocup. They used to
use aibo, which was a little dog robot, which also could
get by with just bumping the ball. They've got an
ad for it in the cover--NAO ataldebaran-robotics.
I don't know how it's going to go with my copycat thing.
I also have that ARM robotics computer (qwerk), and I need to make
a robot from it.
And I said constraint satisfaction. A big example that he used
other than soccer was Su Doku. It's a good example of logic
constraints.
Wow, that sucked. I finally got around to trying to
do some stuff. I grabbed the email I wrote in January
to the INTP list about the stuff I wanted to do.
One of the things was get Copycat running in Clojure.
So I fired up clojure and got started a bit. And
the first thing I'm seeing is how so many things
are just renamed in clojure. So it looks like it's
going to be a pain. But at least I did something,
got frustrated and quit pretty quick, but I wasn't
really trying to really get started, just to look
at it real quick. The list also had some books I
was working on. I finally finished _Bonk_ a few
days ago. I've got a hundred pages left in _Emotion Machine_
so maybe I will be able to finish it. I decided
not to try to read the book _Charlatan_ for Aimee's
thing on Thursday. I only do a limited amount of
reading, and I've got so many things sitting around.
I saw something icky in Copycat. It can only take one
letter change at a time. so it has some serious limits.
I finished another book, _Outliers_ by Malcolm Gladwell.
It had a bunch of interesting stuff. It takes 10,000
hours to be an expert. In Canadian hockey, where kids
in little league have an age cut off in January,
that little advantage in the beginning means that most
of the big players are born early in the year, largely
January. There are also good years to be born that
give you adavanatages in different fields. around 1955
for computer entrepeneurs. And plane accidents are
more likely when the pilot is flying, because the 2nd
in command will be on the radio, and won't be as assertive
when talking, at least that was an issue for Korean airlines.
And there was a big thing about entitlement that rich
kids get, that poor kids don't, and social habits that
they develop from that. That was an issue that I think
I have. Not being very assertive is kind of part of the idea.
But their big example was Chris Langan, who has a high IQ,
but never could manage issues in college, and really it
seems like life in general.
Suddenly in kind of an angry mood. It's passing a bit, though.
I wanted to go out and see the new Target near hear, but I
checked the hours and it was about to close. Feel the
silliness of the whole M thing. Gained a couple pounds.
A little frustrated, I guess.
One of the most interesting notions I got from the
conference was from one of the German presenters.
I should look up which paper was involved. But anyway,
his system used, great now I son't remember the
term. It was anti-resolution or anti-reduction.
But it was a procedure in symbolic logic that
combined two different frames in something like
analogy. You find correspondences between two
descriptions. I think the example was the Bohr
model of the atom where the nucleus is the sun
and the electrons are planets. The thing of it
is that the correspondences could be a lot of different
things, and the hard part is finding and keeping
track of the ones that work fairly well. One issue,
of course, is that when you have a lot of frames
like in a system with lots of knowledge, it is
an explosion of possibilities, so it is difficult to
work with. But that's an inherent issue with analogy.
The antireduction or antiresolution, or whatever it
was, at least takes it into the realm of a more
mechanical process, like a resolution theorem
prover, with variable binding and such. It is
a big search problem, but at least I can see it
in terms that make sense in coding, so I have somewhere
to go with it.
Happy First Day of Spring! Happy Spring Equinox!
Happy St. Patrick's Day!
Back in Memphis. The conference was pretty good.
A lot of the systems had the source available so
there is a lot to look at. But some from last
year weren't there. Nothing from Stan Franklin.
There was a guy from IBM that was missed. Then I
stayed for a while in Baltimore. That was pretty
nice. One of the things I wanted to do was to
see how well I could handle the drive. It was
fine. I listened to some classes on DVD which
gave me something to do, and otherwise listened
to music. So it went fine. The drive back was 900
miles, for 14 hours. Next year the conference is
in Lugano, Switzerland. I'm not sure if I will go.
Happy Pi Day!
Happy Friday the Thirteenth!
I'm sitting in my hotel room (502) at the Crown Plaza
at the agi-09 conference. The drive was arduous.
Google said 13.5 hours, and I thought I was going
to do better than that, but it ended up taking 14.
and then I got lost a bit in Arlington. End up
in the Pentagon parking lot, though my destination
was really only a couple of miles away. Too many freeways
with no place to stop. Then a big parking lot. So
got in about two. Had trouble finding this little place
I wanted to get to.
The money is dwindling away. But I think I have about enough.
But was very uncomfortable on Friday. didn't eat
till dinner, except maybe an egg and honey bun.
And sleepy. Slept a long time at night (10 hours)
but then decided to sleep through one of the talks
for a couple of more hours. Got a footlong from
Subway, and that should be food for me today. Much
happier with some food.
One thing was kind of neat, though, driving around--
The Washington monumet really stands out. Especially
at night because it has a big red light sitting up
at the top.
Happy Square Root Day!
I was sitting on union at third, waiting to turn
right at the red light. there is a sign for
no right on red. It was late at night, and pretty much
no traffic, but still. There was a cab behind me
and he flicked his lights and honked, then pull out
into the other lane and turned around me. Normally
around here there is right on red, but for some
reason right there they had that. Kind of irritating.
And the light changed as he was turning, so we ended up
going at the same time, anyway. But I'm sure he thought
I was the one being irritating. And he was working for
a living, which is a little different. And maybe he
didn't see the sign. I actually was already past it,
so I couldn't see it from where I was, but I had
seen it before.
Seems like a lot of little things
lately have got me my frustration tolerance a little
lower. There was also a big truck. The road was
about to go to one lane, with the right and left
lanes were turn only, but this big truck--I mention
it because I find big trucks just scream selfishness,
pulls up along the empty right lane. And then goes straight
anyway, not in front of everybody--there were about 5
or six cars, and he got in maybe second or thrid,
but some illegal crap. I had pulled over to the middle
lane like I should have. So when he was getting
through, I honked my horn. I feel like it
would be good to honk when I see people breaking
the law, just so people know that not everyone
thinks it's ok. I hope I didn't confuse the guy
in front of me, though.
Finally got a mac mini. I had a bit of trouble
with the dvi video cable on the monitor I was using.
didn't quite fit, so I had to cut off some plastic.
And I had all kind of trouble just doing that.
To get the stand off, I had to take out 4 screws.
Then I tried using a dremel tool I never used before,
and had trouble with that. The cutting wheel didn't
want to unscrew. So I gave up for a bit, and
used the vga cord with the adapter just to get
the computer on, and then came back and did
the dvi thing. Too much frustration. And then
the dremel cutting wheel wasn't even really doing
a good job, so I just used wirecutters. Should have
gone to that first, and I would have been done easily.
Live and learn. I guess I do get frustrated a little
too easily for all the little fixit projects and
building things that I might like to do. Oh well.
I'm not sure how I manage computer stuff. Just
used to it, I guess.
Dang, so my Dell laptop just bluescreened. I didn't
really see when, I just had it folded down, and saw it
when I came back to it. It may have tried shutting
itself off in there. I had to
update the video driver to something that seems
a little iffy, so maybe that was it. But it's irritating.
I have rearranged stuff. I had big CRT monitoring that
I was keeping on my nightstand, but I put that upstairs
and now have a big flatscreen from work sitting there.
But now I have space to just keep a laptop sitting there, so
now I'm doing that. And I'm noticing that this laptop has
a little whispery fan, and occasionally do kind of a puff venting,
so it isn't ultimately quiet. With my newly recognized auditory
preference, I see how that's a bigger deal to me. The mini mac
is very quiet, and that just seems so nice. I haven't turned
on my desktop since the rearrangement. And I may move the mac
in here. We'll see. It works pretty well on the desk in there.
I never really liked doing touristy things. But now I'm thinking
maybe it's more of a visual thing. I just doing get so
much at looking at all the "pretty" sights. Or having memories
of the sights.
I noticed that the mac comes with some sort of music software.
I need to try it out. And I think if I want to really look
into music again, I need to get a proper midi keyboard and
start input stuff to midi and putting it here. It's been
something I've been wanting to do for years now. I saw a
keyboard thing in the apple store. I see there are keyboard
things for mac. One other thing musical thing recently at
the Java meeting was for the iPhone, maybe it was the ocarina,
kind of a flute like thing. but they had online stuff so you
could listen to people around the world. Sounds like there
really should be some other types of jamming apps.
also, since I'm auditory, I think that talking to
the computer is the best way to deal with it.
That's why I'm interested in the speech rec stuff.
But most people are visual, so that isn't the most
common thing, and most computer stuff is done by
visual things like screens and mice. Keyboards
are sort of visual, I guess, in the sense that
displaying text is visual amd their direct effect
is to do that. phone are a natural auditor or
speech input. the phones now do have screens with
fair size, though they are pretty small. computer
screens use a lot of visual area because they are up close.
the phone screen takes up the kind of visual area like
a tv screen off in the distance. That's a qualitatively
different kind of thing. A computer screen is comparable
to a book or magazine page. A TV screen makes up for
things by having a lot of motion and action, which
lets you get a lot of information without taking a lot
of the visual field. So if you want to do visual
things on a phone, you need to think TV and not book
magazine, or computer screen. But again, a phone is
much more naturally auditory.
I barely talked to Melissa at all. But I do have the
feeling that I really just liked being around. It
was really a crazy night for her, and she was kind
of whining to me about the problems she was having.
I guess I liked being there for her to talk to.
But I didn't really have anything to say.
Happy March! Happy Kalends!
Argh. So many people over here. I really would
rather have been by myself. Both parents. My
mom got Mike to come over and do plumbing. And
he has the two kids. And they want to play
with my stuff, so I had to spend time setting
things up. And then they wanted both my laptops,
so I ended up without for a bit. And Tristan
asked me if he could use the one in my room,
and I said no, but they used it anyway. Two
kids sitting in my room. Not real happy with
that. They played with the light sabers a bit.
And then they were playing with the laptops next
to each other, and they looked at a couple of
sites about information about sex. Like I didn't
notice then that they had pointed the screen
away and were being a bit hush, and like I
wouldn't check the history. I don't think I
saw any porn sites, other than the ones I had
gone to. Maybe they aren't that brave.
They actually seemed a bit timid. I was checking
my emails when they came. Like 200 had stacked
up from the MetaC group. Seems like they
are a bit out of hand. And I wasn't paying too
much attention, and they were kind of wispering.
I think they wanted to ask me about using my
Wii or something, but they never did. They
were playing with it, and putting stuff in.
They were searching channels on the TV. They
asked my dad something about which channel
and he said 3 or 4. Clueless. This TV has
a special button on the remote you have to
use. You can't get to it from the buttons
on the TV. But did they ask me? No. To
chicken. Probably just as well. Eventually
I asked if they were trying to get the Wii
working. I think it would have been good
if they could have figured it out by themselves.
But, um, no. And I have a 11 year old laptop
upstairs that I try to get set up for them
with some old games on Mame. I couldn't
remember the keys to use to play. And they
weren't that interested. Turns out
there are all sorts of free online games,
and they needed a real computer with a browser
and internet. Well la-di-da. But on the
old laptop, Terrin was playing a bit, and
asked if I used it, and I said no, and he
asked if he could have it. Hmm. well,
I suppose it makes sense that if I'm
not using it, he could have it. But I
really was leaving it there for guests.
And I don't feel like rewarding greedy little
punks because they have come across some
slick ploy and lost the inhibitions from
using it. Nice trick, kid. Good luck with that.
He did the same thing with a mouse I didn't
even know I had. I think my brother left it.
I guess I was a bit surprised bit the boldness
of it. Maybe I should think of a response.
Maybe, "make me an offer?" Maybe I shouldn't
say I'm not using things. I did give them an
extra copy of _Kung Fu Panda_ I had sitting around.
One thing I seemed to notice from Terrin. He
seemed really emotionally needy. He kept
asking his little brother to come over and
watch what he was doing. Seems like it's
usually the younger brother that's the
irritating one. But I kind of had the
feeling that they are still shaken up
by the break up of their parents. And she
calls every day, sometimes several times.
She called a couple of times just this evening.
So I'm guessing maybe a bit of neediness
runs in the family. Mike's not like that,
of course. He was quite able to cut her
off. And I would think that could be a little
scary, too. Hmm.
And I think this categorizing of sensory preferences
explains something. I don't any pictures here.
I haven't even expanded the look here to put
pictures here. I'm just not very visual. I
don't care about the look. I never really
have. Some people do care about looks.
But that's just not me. There are fancy blog
engines for living in that world. That's just
mine. I fell in love with Holly before I had
ever seen her. Just reading her words and
listening to her on the phone. That was enough.
I liked the look, but honestly, it wasn't that
important.
Sixty minutes just did a thing on Bernie Madoff
and his ponzi scheme. The thing that stood out to me
was saying it was an affinity scam, where he conned
people like him. The thing is that it's Jewish people.
And I imagine that just makes it a bigger story in
the news. All those rich Jewish grampas getting
wiped out. It's so sad. If you can have sympathy
for greedy rich people that don't know anything about
finance. Look for a Hollywood movie.
One that about Mike and his kids, they don't eat much.
In particular, they didn't seem to eat more than they
wanted, like they were stocking up for a famine.
That's kind of the way it seems like my dad and
me were eating. They ate a big breakfast, and then
didn't have lunch, and Mike skipped breakfast, and
did have lunch. He skipped breakfast because he
was still full from the night before, where he ate
maybe two servings of lasagna. I don't really care
so much for lasagna, but to eat sociably, I joined
him and ate more. But an irritating thing. The
kids didn't join us for lunch, but then wanted to take
some leftovers along, and then they took a lot more
than they would have eaten, and didn't really leave
us with enough for a full meal for two. They are
all very skinny though, possible maybe a little too
skinny. Mike says he doesn't cook, and mostly just
eats peanut butter and tuna. Man. I eat too much.
They only eat two meals a day. And my parents said
they eat three, but I finally had to say I only
want to eat two.
And my dad was talking with Mike about fruit trees. Mike is going
to grow a couple. My dad was talking about how everything
he plants dies. I hope Mike had enough sense to realize
that my dad is not the right person to take advice from.
But he gives it freely. I felt I needed to keep quiet.
But one thing I want to say was that he could take
some encouragement that my dad has been able to keep
some apple trees alive. Or, probably more accurately,
apple trees are able to survive even if someone like
my dad plants them. Because he did something incredibly
bad for them. Fruit trees need wind, some kind of breeze
that will blow off the dew or any water that gets on them.
An open field. But my dad put them in the most isolated
little gap in the woods, that is absolutely calm. So they
always have fungus growing on them. The apples look terrible.
But once peeled, they taste okay. Apples--the survivor of
the fruit world.
Melissa does Su Doku. She hasn't been able to sleep
this week, so she does them. But when I heard
that, I think my feelings really kind of changed again.
It makes her seem more relatable to me, I guess.
I don't know if I had told her about the massage therapy
stuff for fibromyalgia stuff before, but I did this time.
How there is stuff just to stimulate the parasympathetic
system, so she can maybe sleep. And different things she
might take. I even said finally that there were things
that I didn't feel comfortable talking to her about at
work, so I haven't ever, but maybe sometime. Right now
I'm kind of thinking it's pretty irrelevant. Maybe I
can let go a little more. I didn't give her really much
chance to respond as it was just when I was leaving.
So now I can spend some more time on Su Doku.
It was 70 degrees a couple of days ago. Today it is snowing.
That's just crazy.
Well that's a bummer. I just found that deleting emails
on my phone is deleting it off the pop server, too.
So someone sent me a 3MB file, which used up the memory
on the phone, and I tried deleting a bunch of messages
on the phone to free space. I was keeping a month's worth.
Now they are gone forever. I have years of stuff saved.
But not this stuff any more. Grr. I don't know what all
of it was. I hope it wasn't too important.
Today was my last day working for Hilton. We went out
to lunch at Dan MscGuinness. Dani put in our order kind
of late, so it was a long time getting our food. She felt
so sorry about it. I just wanted to give her a hug.
I think I did that recently when I made Melissa feel
bad about something. I think it's a good way of dealing
with something like that. It didn't actually bother
me, though I don't know about the others.
Happy Mardi Gras! Happy Fat Tuesday!
So, I'm listening to the commentary for the sixth season
Simpsons episode "Bart of Darkness", and I had to pause
for a comment. David Mirkin, the show runner, just has
a really impressive energy. It just seems nice to listen
to someone so up. I guess that's the kind of thing that
makes me just listen to the commentaries, more than the
show. Bunch of really sharp people.
This dream was semi-lucid. I think I must have realized I
was dreaming, because I think I remember there were bits where
I would think I would try to explore what would happen. Anyway,
it was very vivid. There was one, where I gor to a garage,
with several red cars, and I thought how in dreams I could
never find my car, so maybe this is the future, and you just
take whatver car is available. So I grabbed the red vw bug
(actually that's the kind Aimee has) and I was driving through
this inside tunnel system with lots of doors. I figure underground.
Didn't come up with much. Didn't see any people, But I was thinking
about the vividness of fantasy. And how in this dream, my internal
dialog to myself was far far clearer and solid than it would
be in real life. Sacks confirms that auditory imaginiative vividness
can vary. His dad could have a symphony in his head, an internal
ipod. He had maybe an internal piano. Seems like something you could
have built up and cultivated.
So i powered through to the end of boothman's love book. man.
I guess I get the feeling he wrote stories that fit what he thinks
than actually had something real he was finding out and telling
about. fiction from his brain. he had luck with someone
who is opposite from him. he invented or found stories to corroborate,
and he's passing the message around, because he is a noisy extrovert
and that's what they do. I was thinking I had finally gotten
to the point of where he would say what to do in that 90 minutes
he was talking about, after 200 pages of not very much. Talk.
Great Nick. Thanks a bunch. He did talk about levels of revealing
private details at different levels of risk and playfulness.
And there was that think with matching and mirroring. He called
it synching. Like I said, I thought it was neat when I tried it.
But it really sounded like he didn't actually think there was
much that was likely to happen in 90 minutes. It was more that
once you had found the right person, and continued contact, love
was inevitable. And some of that seemed to be more that it would work
because you believed it was right, and his deal with "matched
opposites" a way of knowing the person was right, was more a thing
that would make you be sure about it being the right person.
And I was getting the feeling that as an extrovert, to him,
external validation is the most important think, so he thinks
a supportive, quite person is the right match for him. I'm
very doubtful. His assumption is that you fall in love with
how the other person makes you feel. That's the extrovert, external
validation thing. It really sounds to me like his bias. He
seems to argue about how the complementing makes you a better team.
I don't know, it sounded nice. Maybe personally, I just don't
like people who are different from me, much more so than an
extrovert possibly could even imagine. Still, I like Aimee,
and we're are opposite in exactly the way he talks about.
So I don't know. It was definitely something to think about.
But his idea is that I would love someone because they made
me feel intelligent. I don't think that has ever happened,
but there have been women I have loved because of things about them.
Like I said, I think it's this thing he has stuck in his brain.
Also, actually Liz is this type, and I really like her. Something
weird about how much I like her, too. And her current husband seems
to be more like my type, a kind of quiet computer guy. Hmm.
Dang. So there was a creepy guy, Alan who was pretty
drunk, and was asking Melissa if she would marry him.
There were some of his buddies around though, too.
One of them was trying to get his card so he could
pay his bill. didn't even have the sticker removed yet.
said he needed to tip 20%. you have to tip well if
you want to take someone out. But someone in that
group, I don't know if it was the same guy, put
a bill down. Seemed like I heard Melissa say it was
a hundred, and she was giving him the change, and he
let her have it all. But then, she kind of sat with him
a bit, and kind of seemed to like him a bit, though in
a bit of a reserved way. I think his name was Mark. And it's
sad, but I was feeling kind of jealous. And it's sad
because Melissa always gives me a huge amount of attention
and even that night gave me a lot more than that, but
I still was getting a little jealous. Not nice.
This time, we sat around listening to this cute little
red-head talk till maybe 1:30. I think her name is Sara.
Happy Valentine's Day!
OK, they say it's a heart shape, but I think people
really understand it's an ass shape.
Watched the Simpson's episoe "Grade School Confidential".
Actually, I watched the commentary, and then it in the original.
There was a bit that got me laughing. Skinner and Crabapple
have a secret thing going, and then it comes out, though
rumors about it get out of proportion, the superintendent
tries to fire them, and they barricade themselves in the
school. Skinner wants to plead his case, but Bart comes
up with a plan to get their attention first. So Skinner
comes out with a bomb strapped to his chest. But it's
not a bomb. It's hot dogs. "What kind of a man wears
Armour hotdogs?".
What is love? So I'm going to try to read this book
about making someone fall in love with you in 90 minutes.
The first thing he's talking about, though, is what is
love. And he's starting with the idea from Plato's
Symposium that love is about completing yourself. I'm
only a couple of pages into it, but he doesn't seem to
tell the Greek story. I'm not sure if it's in Plato,
but there was the Greek story about it. Actually, I
think I saw it most vividly in _Hedwig and the Angry
Inch_. But it's a trippy little story. It used to
be that people had 4 arms and 4 legs, but the gods
thought they were too happy (or something, I forget,
actually it was they were challenging the gods, whatever)
so they broke them all in half. Now they are all
just trying to get back together again. OK, I looked
it up. It's from Aristophanes and is talked about
in the _Symposium_. The story also has three genders
(hetero, gay male, lesbian).
OK. Had to take a long break from it. Needed a nap,
and then there were 150 emails on the MetaC list.
Plus he used a different system for breaking people
into 4 groups, and it kind of seem like he
mangled it a bit, putting in some stuff that is incidental
to the categories he was using. The scales he uses
are thinking/feeling and introverted/extroverted,
so he gets rationals (IT), controllers (ET), supporters (IF)
and promoters (EF). And says go for the opposite,
as they complete you. OK. But he says the rationals
are organized, and that's simply not always true
the way he lined it up. IT's can be organized or not.
that's a different scale (J/P). Anyway, despite
this being a bit messed up, he did say something
that kind of looked right. The different types
like different things in how the other people make
them feel. IT's like to feel intelligent. ET's
like to feel powerful. IF's like to feel valued
(this one seemed a little weak, maybe useful,
and EF's like to feel important, or maybe popular.
Anyway, not going to finish it today. Actually,
I felt like punching him in the nose again.
Worked a bit on the heavy bag again. Right is still
weak, got a little better maybe. Left is good.
I'm thinking, I'd want to hit someone in the forehead
and snap his head back. I wonder if that would work.
The higher up, you get more leverage on the neck.
I don't know if I'd be able to break someone's neck,
but I hit pretty hard. It would have to at least
knock them off balance.
Anyway, this opposites thing is completely new to
me. I'm not sure yet if I agree, but it is intriguing.
Also, I don't think I've been with someone who
is that particular type--I have generally prefer
women who were closer like me. Or maybe it's the
other way around. But I think Aimee is actually
this type. Hmm. Also this new Andrea is clearly
this type. And she said she is into the intellectuals,
so she is kind of already doing this. I will consider it.
Happy Friday the Thirteenth! Happy Ides of February!
Wow, I actually went to the library today and borrowed the
book for the book club this month instead of buying it.
Some because my pile of books just looks too big.
I brought home all my books that were at work, so that
made it bigger, and I bought a few more, recently. I
have been trying to put books in this big plastic
boxes, but they have been stacking up, so I probably
have two boxes worth. I should proably get some more
shelves. Who knows, maybe I'll move and then have space
to keep them all on shelves. Actually, maybe I should look
at what is the cheapest, easiest way to do bookshelves.
Right now, I do wooden ones with backs that at least look
kind of nice. Maybe I should go ultra with library style
metal adjustable. something where you can put them on
both sides--stacks. OK, also it saves money to borrow,
which is not too bad a thing. I don't think it would
have hurt. Also, at least this one was available.
I'm not sure if the last one was. My brother had
wanted to get stuff from the library over christmas,
and I let them try my card, but it was expired.
I found that you have to get them updated each year.
What's up with that? _Musicophilia_ by Oliver Sacks.
Stuff about the psychology and pathology of music.
It looks interesting. Kind of like a book I might
like to own, but hey.
Happy Thursday the 12th! Happy Darwin Day! It's his
200th birthday!
So, I think it's not actually complete natural to sleep
solidly all in a big block at night. A nap during the
day is a bit more natural, I believe. But maybe you can
get used to it. I suppose you can get used to almost
any schedule, but you need a pretty good amount. Then again
possibly there are some things that you might, um, want to
do that could wake you up, and then when you finish, you
would want to go back to sleep if you could.
I posted somewhere (a place in the philosophy section of the
ISPE Ning site) that you could be sure that there is
no god the same way you can be sure there is no Santa Claus.
You could trace the history of the story, and see that it
is just a story, with no real basis for being correct.
Now I'm kind of wondering if that isn't a little circular.
If you start with a hypothesis that there is no god, that is just
confirmation. But then, if you start with the hypothesis that
there is one, you think you have confirmation for that, too.
But what is the confirmation for god that people find?
The world seems ordered. And most importantly, life
and so many parts of bodies and plants and things, seem
to have a purpose, like someone made them that way. Well,
it turns out that Darwin (his birthday today, remember)
whoed how just selective survival of occasionally
mutating species can create features that have valuable
function. That leaves the question of why we exist
in the first place here. Not completely answered, but
we have inorganic, non-life processes that can create some
fundamental organic compounds--I say some, actually
all the ones we need. It would need quite a bit of chance
to make a replicator, but with any replicator at all,
you have evolution, which we've seen is an extremely powerful
force. Why an earth that is so supportice of life?
We have the anthropic principle that we could only be
here at all because it's a place conducive to life.
It could well be that starting life is rare and we are
very lucky here. And then there is the origin of the
universe. Again, we have the anthropic principle to
explain why we are in a universe that supports life--
we have to be. But we have to explain why there is
a universe at all. The long-hairs keep working on this,
suffice it to say that we know that individual particles
appear and disappear all the time now. We could just
be one of those fluctuates, but with an additional
random event of "inflation" where suddenly a lot more
stuff appeared, at least relative to us. More than likely,
we are not the only universe. Since the word "universe"
means only "one", we would have to expand that idea a little
bit. We are in a pretty big region where all of the
physical constants are the same, as far as we are able to reach.
There actually are places, like black holes, where we can't
go, and maybe the physical constants are different there,
but by extension, I say there are other "universes" separate
from us, and not connected in the sense we can't go there
and nothing there can come here, because the differences
in physical constants make it impossible for travel in between
where we would continue to exist. You can also add to all
this the psychological tendency for people to see agency
--to think that some purposeful creature is doing something.
This is kind of an evolutionary adaptation, so we are better
at noticing the presence of predators and prey animals.
It just got reused in the stories about the origin world.
Also, I was thinking maybe I would have to start with the
hypthosis of no god first. I'm thinking now that the
real thing that points to it is how the Judaic creation
store, is just one of many in the world. They can't
all be right, because there are so many, and they are very
different. They have a common element of having person-like
gods, but again, that's a human psychological tendency.
There is the question of why the judaic system is so
common. It's really just popular. It also has some
features that help it survive. It says all the other stories
are silly. Well, that's true, and they contradict each other.
It seems a little odd not to think that story too is silly,
once you've started don't that path. I guess it happens.
Also, there is the whole out-grouping thing. We don't like
foreigneres. That actually place into that. People just
love to think and say that other people are wrong. So they
have to presume they are right, despite being silly. So
more psychology. Anything else? I don't know. They've
also pushed the idea of god to not really have much of
any real meaning. God used to be up in the sky (I guess)
now they can't really say that. Now they say God is everywhere.
That doesn't really seem to mean anything, though. There
isn't really any test that could show if it correct or not.
Convenient, yet suspicious. Then there is all the money
the people get from propagating the system. It kind
of gives you a sick feeling when you think about that,
so another pychological thing, people are going to
keep themselves from even thinking about it, lest they
feel like suckers. That's a really harsh one. No one
would want to admit being taken in like that. So if you
can start them with the donations early, they are going
to really stick with saying they believe, especially to
themselves. It's going to really hurt to admit they've
been taken. Probably there was social pressure to do the
donations, but once done, it really locks in your brain.
I had to correct the names of the books a little bit.
They still might not be quite right. The fall in love
one isn't about making anyone love you. you have
to find the right person. Boo! And presumably,
not everyone will like you. Also boo. I think
I wrote wrong titles that were more universal.
I finished _How make people like you in 90 seconds_.
Read it all in a burst on Sunday. It is pretty short,
with not so many pages, and they are quite small.
It doesn't have that much in it, either, but then,
it really couldn't because it's about 90 seocnds
that can happen between people. So let me see,
not everything stuck. The first immediate thing
(I've forgotten exactly), eyes smile beam hi shake.
I really should look that up. This quick period is
about making a connection and establishing rapport.
Engage in conversation, and ask open questions with
what when where why and how, and not yes/no questions
like are you or do you (they stall conversations).
He went on a bit about mirroring or matching the
body position and movements of the other person.
And he talked about the idea of different sensory
preferences--visual, auditory, and kinesthetic.
Visual is the most common. They are people who
are most concerned with how things looks.
Auditory with soounds, and kinestheic with how
things feel. I think he overstated this one a
bit, but it seems interesting. Supposedly a
person will tend to use words and analogies
that reflect their preference. For example
"Looks like trouble", or "sounds like trouble".
I'm not sure I quite get the kinesthetic,
maybe "that's a solid choice" or "feels funny".
He gave fairly big lists of words that fell into
the different categories. And there was a test
to see which you were, or something. Seemed
like I was all over the place. And you don't
simply have a single prefences, but you have
an order of preference. Visual people are
also very concerned with how they look. Like I said, I didn't
quite get it, but it was supposed to be something
where eventually it pops out at you, and you
start seeing it a lot. He also said it was
valuable in connecting with people. He said
a cop pull him over, and by his beard and
physique he was obvious visual, and he used
the visual words, and that got him off with
a warning. Uh huh. Well anyway, it's something
he talked about. I think I'm mostly auditory,
and to a lesser extent visual. Like I said,
I don't get kinesthetic. Also, he did talk about
how if you are talked to someone using the
wrong, they might not follow you and be confused.
I guess.
So, at Bardog, I pretty well failed at using any
of this stuff. I sat a seat over from Paul,
and Melissa finally introduced us. Totally
failed to connect. I said I read his blog,
and had one myself. Didn't talk about computers
or anything, though I knew he was a computer guy.
Paul is generally quiet, so I kind of let him
be, but still, anybody would like a connection.
Also, going to the jukebox, there were a bunch
of little girls sitting there, and one of them
behind me tried talking to me. Do I try to
be at all friendly? No. She asks if I was
going to play anything good, and I said no.
That really is a very useless thing to do.
It's just a bad habit I've gotten into.
But for a couple of minutes talking to Melissa,
I tried out the matching/mirroring thing.
I forget what she was talking about, but I
tried following her hand and body position.
It really did seem to make a difference, as
she kind of seemed like she felt more connected.
She had to go do stuff pretty soon, but she
really seemed to hang on to that little conversation
a lot longer than average. That was the
only time I made an effort to do it.
I forgot about it when we were saying goodbye
outside, and as I thought later, it really did
feel different, like we were less connected,
and instead of kind of dwelling a bit like
sometimes happens, we just moved on pretty quickly.
But I have to remember to practice and keep with it.
That little experience though really gave me
a feeling about how it could be. In general,
there just hasn't really been so much connection
between us, but if I managed it better and really
kept a solid connection, she probably would really
want to see me more. So I definitely need to
cultivate this. It also makes me want to look
at his longer book, _How to make someone fall in love with
you in 90 minutes_. Seems like he said that one
was based on a lot of research. OK.
So Prez Obama is trying to push a big "stimulus"
package through. And he's at this point not
even trying to make something that Republicans
can support. He threw in everything a Democrat
could want to spend money on, so there's no
way they could like it. But it's an intriguing
strategy when you think about it. First of all,
government cannot push the economy along. It's
just not that good. The economy is a like a big
elephant, and it's going to do what it wants to
do. The government is is like a little chattering
monkey. I don't think it really has much relevant
effect on it, though, it does seem like some of
the permissiveness lately with some of the investment
rules did let the banking crisis get out of hand.
But that's something else. So Obama has made this
an entirely Democratic thing. And it will work
or it won't. He's rolling the dice. But here's
the fun part of it. The economy will get better.
It might, and probably will, take a while, but
it's going to take a while. And it will in fact
have nothing to do with anything the government
has done. It will get better on its on. That's
just way it works. But he will have to get credit
for it. That's the way the presidency works.
And doing it this way, he won't share any of it
with the 'pubs. Some of them are going to have
to support it though, so they are already trying
to defuse this whole ploy. It's not something that
they don't get. They are also trying to kill
it by saying it won't create job. Well, duh,
it won't create jobs. That's what I've been talking
about. Anyway, the whole mess is just about
people being scared and not spending money. It's
entirely a mental thing with the people. But
what can you do about that? About the only
thing the package really does is give the feeling
that something is being done, and maybe that will
have some kind of calming effect.
Honestly too, health care is a job issue. One
of the big things that scares people about jobs
is the whole thing with insurance. If people did
not have to worry about that, then you wouldn't have
this sort of extreme fear that is causing problems
in the economy. And it's really sad that the U.S.
is one of the few places where people don't think
that protecting the health of the people is the
role of the government. But that's more about the
conservative mindset that hates for other people
to get anything for free, even if that makes it
cheaper for you. Kind of like how there is also
this teetolar streak in America, where drinking
and other fun is a bad thing. It's the darn
Baptists, I tells you. Trying to push us back
into the stone age.
OK, I haven't gotten through it yet, and it's
a little more sad than necessary, but it seems insigthful.
A bit about how not to fail at life.
I do get the feeling I was making a mistake
by staying unemployed as long as I did, then again,
periods where I, um, dated, really only corresponded
to when I was not working, or only worked part time.
So not positive about it.
Well, I think a hackintosh (installing the mac operating
system OS X on a PC) is going to be too hard for me
to do. More too much work, the kind of thing I
just wouldn't finish. So if I I want to do iPhone
stuff, I should probably get a Mac mini. And
I can develop stuff on the emulator before actually
getting a phone and switching over. And at least
see if I'll be into it. Like I said, I have been
interested in phone apps, and I think the phone
really is the proper interface. Voice is the way
to do computers, and the phone is the best way to do voice.
But I haven't gotten into actually doing stuff. Maybe it
will get me there. But I'm not sure how well the
emulator handles the sound inputs and such. Hmm.
anyway, we'll see. Also, people talk about just
doing the touch. But they are thinking stand alone
programs, not my sense of interactive control of
a computer. The front end to a server program.
That's what I'm thinking.
Looked at Paul site. Says he has his eye on a job,
but doesn't want to give anything away lest he
have competition. Great Paul. Thanks a bunch.
Good luck with that.
Robert Plant's and Alison Krauss's _Raising Sand_
won the Grammy award for best album of the year.
I got that album last year. I like it, myself.
One of the tracks _Please Read the Letter_ also
won for best record, though I'm not sure what
that means. A song from a different artist won
for best song.
I've finished the leftovers in the refrigerators, but
there is a bunch of stuff in the freezer. Roasts of
various things. Hamburger, pork chops, that kind of thing.
I tried one of the pork roasts, and it was a pork loin.
It ended up very dry, and it maybe wasn't as good
as the cheaper cuts that I'm used to which are more
fatty. Extremely white meat, whereas, like I said,
I'm used to these other cuts that don't end up with
the pure white like that. I guess it really wasn't too
bad. I say dry, I think it cook have been worse if
I had overcooked it, but I got it pretty much right
to 170 without going much over, like i have sometimes.
But except maybe for a tiny bit around the outside, there
was just no fat at all in it. Just a different thing, and I
guess I'll have to keep it in mind.
Happy Friday the Sixth!
I was standing outside at work in the covered walkway,
and two people said the weather was so nice, we should
get out of work. One of those days.
Today I've been listening to the commentary on
Star Trek: First Contact. The one with the Borg,
and Zephram Cochran and the first warp drive.
It's Johnathan Frakes, who directed it, and also
plays Riker. He just sounds neat. Really into it.
Having fun. Some of the people on the other ones
were brought in, and never really cared about anything
Star Trek. Changed things round and just made them
in general suck, but Frakes I like. Billy Borg,
Andy Borg, Tom Borg, Wayne Borg. There's another
commentary with Braga. Grr. don't care for braga.
I don't know if I just go on to the next movie, or
what. I haven't looked at any of the "text commentaries"
from michael and denise okudu. Seem like they are just too
irritating to have to read. And like I said, each movie
has a second disc. Frakes in this one mentioned that
all the borg (there were only a dozen) did some kind of
a capella thing that might be on the DVD. I should hunt
that down. Dang, in the next movie, there is no audio commentary
at all, only the text one. boo.
Finished of the ham and cabbage and the quiche.
So it's pretty much all gone. That was quick.
Freezing cold today. But the sun is shining,
so when I went outside to practice the
new stuff from the staff form I just learning,
it seemed kind of warm in the sun, except
when the wind hit.
Listening to the commentary on Star Trek VI
with Nick Meyer. He says he doesn't really
agree with Gene's view of the future,
without racism or conflict. So I'm
not happy that they felt they had to
just change the nature of the imaginary
universe they were working with. I guess
that's why the movies sucked, and the whole
thing just declined gradually with time.
I was sitting looking at my phone. It's memory
was full for some reason, and it wouldn't even
let me delete messages to try to fix it. It wasn't
downloading email messages only the headers because it
was full, so it was in a pretty useless state. So
I was looking at it, and Andrea put both hands on my
arm and was looking over at it. I didn't react at all,
and just ignored her. Playing it cool. I'm kind of
trying to play with her, but I don't know if she is
also playing with me. We'll have to see. One thing
that was very pretty, when she was leaving, she called
Now I've got all these left-overs and I was worried
they were going to last an annoyingly long time. Three
of the big square corningware dishes, and about a third
of a quiche. But I finished one and a half of the corning
off. I guess their not quite so big as I was thinking.
There really is just one serving in them. The half is
just rice and vegetables, and I'll probably have it with
a chicken leg quarter. I almost did that today, but
I finished off the chili instead (with some of the rice),
just so I would make a lot of progress on these leftovers.
The parents really disrupt my eating habits, and not
just while their here. The sad thing is they leave
leftovers too, so it's hard to get back to my much more
moderate diet. Plus I gain weight from all that. And
the food isn't really the food I like. The full container
that's left is ham, cabbage, and potatoes. I guess
that really is the harshest bit. Who likes cabbage?
But the way mom did it, it's really surprisingly good,
but still. Seems like Andrea abd them were saying something
about cabbage.
On Thursday, Melissa forgot to bring in some more
lemonade for me, and I had to switch to something else,
sprite and pineapple. I had told her on Sunday that
I was coming to the book club Thursday, but I had
gotten so good at always sending a text message, that
she was relying on the text, and didn't remember
that I had said anything. Now I know. But it tells
me something. She doesn't think about me when she's home
the way I think about her when I'm home. I'm am only
associated with work in her mind. Oh well. She
isn't going to school this semester, so she has more
time and I abolutely need to see her outside of work
for something.
I googled "kidney regeneration" because the teaching
company lecture on healing said that the kidney
had some ability to regenerate. This is actually
pretty unusual. It goes on to say that most healing
is by scarring, which is something else. The liver
also can regenerate, and with the myth of Prometheus
who had his liver eaten every day and regrown,
you just wonder how the ancient people knew that
livers could regenerate. It could have been weird
experiments with animals or slaves, or maybe someone
sometime survived losing a lot of his liver from
being attacked by animals or fighting or something.
Anyway, so I find a yahoo answer entry on this question
It appears to be basically a transcription of
that teaching company lecture, with a little stuff
added at the end. Plus it's altered a bit, because
the guy talks about how he isn't the same as when
he started the class. I recognized it specifically
because he used the unusual word "mashed" for a
liver mangled in an accident, and they use the same
word here. And I was thinking maybe
it was just plagiarism (it is not attributed), but
Possibly dude was reading something out of a textbook.
So I don't know. They do say there is a textbook they
based the class on. Maybe I should try to find a copy
of it.
Gout in my left outside ankle. No fun.
Plus they leave milk. I like it kind of, but I'm lactose
intolerant, so it can be painful. This time I have
chocolate to add, which makes it go a lot better.
Happy Groundhog Day! Happy Groundhog Day! Happy Groundhog Day!
Argh. So I got my tax forms from my broker. A bit harsh.
I've got about a thousand dollar of dividends that I
have to pay tax on, and yet, because they were reinvested,
it's only worth maybe 700 to me, but I'm taxed at 1000.
Plus, the whole thing lost more than twenty times that
in value, but does that affect it? no. boo. And it
would all be fine if I were able to hold onto it till
it comes back to a more reasonable value, but now I
might have to take a loss. Still, if I do that,
I think these guys keep strong enough accounting that
I'll have the numbers to declare them. Though I guess
since I don't itemize, it won't really be important.
Well, hmm. Andrea, who seems to hang out more and
more at Bardog, said she likes intellectuals. It was
just them and me, so I moved to sit next to them so
Melissa could just hang around next to us. Actually,
she tended to go hide instead, but anyway... Bunches
of people came in after that, but I was still sitting
next to her. And it was more like she said she had
been dating pilots, and liked their brand of slightly
intellectual. I think the more sigificant attribute
was probably high income, but she said that. So
I should definitely try to go out with her. Though
it might be tough because I don't have a lot of respect
for her right now. And she's such a yakky extrovert.
Happy Kalends of February!
Parents just left today after staying a few days.
Gained a couple pounds. Didn't do any of the
reading I wanted to. I don't feel properly
vacated, or weekended. We watched both
_Wrath of Khan_ and the movie after that,
_the Search for Spock_. I couldn't leave them
hanging with Spock dead since they brought him
back right away. III and IV were directed by Leonard
Nimoy. I got to listen to his commentary on
those, which was nice. Shatner actually was
also on the one for IV--the one with the whales.
And Shatner directed number 5, so I need to listen
to that one. In this set of all the movies I have,
each one has two disks. I haven't looked at what's
on any of the extra disks. I'm a little ascared
because the movies mostly weren't very good,
except maybe Khan and the one with the whales.
I don't know why they thought they could have
an extra disk on each one.
And it's Super Football Game Day! I'm planning
to go down to Bardog. But really, that's just not
my culture. I was just thinking today how Melissa
was a cheerleader. She is just not my people.
It was almost 70 degrees today. It snowed just
a few days ago.
Seems like I've been posting quite a bit in different
groups. I don't know if any of it would be worth
repeating here. All stuff and non-sense.
At the book club meeting, we started talking about
the next book _Musicophilia_, and I described
the music I have in my dreams. How it sometimes
seems richer than what I can hear in real life,
because my actual ears have lost a lot of the higher
frequencies, and in the dream it can be very loud
and intense without the problems you might have
in real life, with buzzing and distortion. But
then we went around and heard about some of the
variation even that little group has in dreaming
one person has no sound in his dream, and no one
talks, but he does have color and tactile sensation.
Aimee has everything, including smells. One person
used to dream in French. Aimee describe one especially
weird thing--when she is really agitated, her dreams
can be on a big black background, but the dream one
happens in a little corner off to the side on the bottom.
Lucid dreams are not so common. Aimee said she has had
maybe only one. I said when they are lucid, they
become easier to remember. There's the one person
on one mailing list who is almost always lucid, and
remembers seven dreams a night. They wondered if
she might not be rested. I said I had heard of another
person who was switched on lucid like that. It
happens sometimes.
Just watched the _Wrath of Khan_ with the folks. Seemed
like they said they hadn't seen it before, but it's been
broadcast, so I don't know. It was nice, though. RIP
Ricardo Montalban.
Again with the snow. And nothing on the roads.
I don't know what I've been up to. Trying to
read the book for the book club _The Gift: Creativity
and the Artist in the Modern World_. Sort of.
Not that into it. Also watching the classes
on pathophysiology. Right now cancer.
I get up. And I'm really having trouble this moring.
Somehow I was dreaming about cutting off my hands
and replacing them with artificial hands, and after
I had the first one off, I was thinking I don't
want to cut my hands off. That was just about the
feelings of bad things happening right now. Anyway,
I'm getting up, and I see that it's hard because my
schedule for a few days has been to be sleeping til
a little later. You get used to sleeping and being
awake at particular times of the day, so it's rough
for me to get up early again as the week starts.
And I go to the kitchen, looking out the window.
And it's freaking snowing.
You don't want to go out in the snow around here.
I look at the street and it isn't sticking yet,
so maybe it'll be OK.
Gosh. Went to the atheist fondue party at Dale and Michelle's.
I have forgotten how much I love those guys. Liz kind of gushed,
unloading her life's story kind of thing. I saw Spring
first, and it was a long lost friend kind of moment. And
I think their getting cuter. I didn't quite follow it,
but it seemed like Spring had something going on with
her boobs. It seems like she is a big self-conscious
about them, and they are quite ample. I think maybe
her blouse was poofing out a bit so she was kind of
open in the front. But we was standing and talking pretty
close together, and Liz just took her pointy fingers
on booth hands and went boop onto Springs tits. Liz
can be a little wild at times, and seems like Spring
is one of those concerned for everyone, worried everything
is OK kind of person. Some kind of weird girl bonding
moment. I guess they do that. But with tits involved.
It was nice though.
It was nice to see Steve. I was
not particularly talkative, though. Michelle actually
said it was nice talking, or not talking. There were some
things I just didn't go into. There was a guy who couldn't
make it, Rick, who's a Buddhist. Steve said I was like
Rick, but not as good. He asked if I was spiritual,
and I said you could be spiritual without any supernatural
elements. I wouldn't go into that any more because there
wasn't a simple thing I could say. I told them to read
my blog. Heh. They didn't know I had one. But why
would they? There is a regular meeting of Occam's
on Monday. I need to finally make it out there.
So, I think I'm going to try to develop some phone apps.
I think I've even written before that I'm interested in
doing that, and it seems like a good time to try. And
I'm thinking iPhone, but that takes a Mac OS. It might
be possible to do a hackintosh. Anyway, Doug has been
looking at Google phone, and that android platform.
It's so far behind the iPhone that it just seems wrong,
and I couldn't quite place why. And it just stuck me.
Doug is thinking like a loser. He's likes the platform
because there isn't as much competition as on the iPhone.
And I say that because it does seem like Doug has a
habit of thinking like that. Maybe I do, too, but
I don't feel like continuing to act like a loser right now.
I'm mean loser in the sense of a person who has been
beaten down and not gotten the whatever and expects
not to get it/her. Sometimes you really just need to
have confidence that you will succeed, or at least can
succeed even if you might not, and try to fight with
the big boys, instead of crawling into a hole
waiting for crumbs.
So the question Louie had for me at kung fu was
why did the Byzantines give up Scholasticism.
He asked me did I know that, because he wanted to
tell me, but I feel I'm classically educated
well enough that I should be able to give a shot
to that question. I hadn't considered it before.
I'm only dimly aware of the traditions. But
scholasticism was a system of knowledge where
you verify things according to how they match
the written body of knowledge from classical
antiquity. It must have been largely platonic,
but I assume they had some aristotelian stuff,
because he was the big cataloguer of all that
was known. But the thing about scholasticism
was that it had no room for empiricism. You
don't decide anything by checking the world
with an experiment, you check what is written.
So it is very brittle to new information and
ideas. The Byzantines were way out in the East,
so they had contact with new ideas from the
Muslim (I forget the timeline, they probably
were before that because they got conquered
in the great Islamic sweep), but they also
had some contact with China, which often came up
with nifty experimentally new devices and thingies.
So I would guess they just hit something they
couldn't deal with, that wasn't in their books
they used. So after letting me drag on, Louie
says it was stochastics. They couldn't deal
with randomness. We had been talking about
Nassim Taleb and the big Black Swan that just
hit us. And the Chinese do have a system that
embraces randomness. The I-Ching is a system
of interpretation of random events. Ba Gua
itself the word refers to the eight trigrams,
which are elements they use in the I-Ching.
For a particular I-Ching entry, you would
have two trigrams, so there are 64 combinations.
So the fighting in Ba Gua was something about
disrupting the flow of someone's attack
with randomness. And there are some established
philosophical ideas from Chinese systems.
When they are hard, be soft, when they are soft,
be hard. And different principles for what
to do in different situations. I forget what
all, exactly. There are a bunch of them.
The might have an attack moving up or down
or pulling forward or back. And you would
react in different corresponding ways.
There's a system involved, and it's supposed
to be integrated a little better than just
being a big bag of tricks you can use, which
is the kind of thing is seems like most styles
are. I haven't quite gotten into all the
principles, and they really have to be shown
with examples, because I get the idea that
while it wants to be a general system based on
principles, it seems more likely that it
really started with the big bag of tricks,
and they just kind of fit together in the
guys head in a vague was that sort of made sense,
and really it's more a matter of a way to remember
it all. That is, you could not get to the
techniques just starting from the principles,
but the principles give you a way to organize
and think about the techniques in your head.
There are just so many ways a body can move around.
So Dale and Michelle had a little baby grand piano
sitting in the corner of the living room, where
we all were sitting. It was really kind of strange.
It really did five you the feeling of rich and sophisticated,
and I asked them who played, and Dale said it was his
mother's. So it was more of an objet d'art. They
had all these little statues and things, too.
There was a little one that looked damned familiar.
I was talking with Liz about it, and David came to my
but I wasn't positive. And Spring came along. She's
actually an artist, and yes, it was Michelangelo's
David, and was looking at us like we were total rubes
for not having known that. And I did feel a little
pitiful. But something seemed just slightly off
about the proportions. And not the way the actual
David is off. But I've only seen photographs,
so probably it was me. Next to it was a mini
Eifel Tower. And on the other side (this was
above a fireplace) were some bowls. Hmm.
Phallic symbols and vagina symbols. Great.
Anyway, there was a baby grand. I like to try
out pianos. But it's been a while since I played
in public. The kids had jumped on it. You
can imagine. They didn't stay so long. And Liz said,
well, look what you'll be following. So I played
a bit. And when I play on a piano, I don't perform
previously composed pieces. I just play. And
people are always surprised when I sit down and
play. It is nice to have cute girls sitting behind
you watching and listening to you play. They did
clap. But there are always folks who want you
to play songs they recognize and know. I don't
do that, though I really should have taken time to
learn that. Maybe I'll get back into it. But it
was Steve. He's into the classical stuff. Asked
for some Chopin. And I just had to say, I don't
play that stuff because I don't like it. Too much
work. And talking to Liz, I only really can fake stuff
anymore. Man, that Liz. She's yummy.
So I tried the Rambo. A cheesesteak sandwich at
Bardog. Paul actually did
a thing about it in his blog including a picture.
I told Melissa about that. She picked up my tab, so
I guess I have to say nice things about it. And
she likes venti non-fat vanilla latte's from starbucks
if you want to do something nice for her. Anyway,
the sandwich was so nice that the cute girl sitting
next to me spoke to me (bonus!) and told me it looked
good. So there you go.
The idea of memes is useful in thinking about religions.
Part of the concept is that meme-systems evolve. And not
metaphorically other than that memes are kind of like
an analogy (that's a little unfair because all new
words and ideas are really metaphors anyway because
in order to understand them, you have to relate them
to something you know). If you can buy that there
is something such as an idea that replicates itself
in someone else's brain in some sense, then it actually
is evolution and survival of the fittest when they
compete and only some survive. It's a different form from
the evolution of living species, and a little more
abstract, but it is exactly the same thing. But
how it works in religions. Genes never actually
exist by themselves, and probably memes don't either.
Genes do get encapsulated in single organisms,
and memes don't operate quite the same way. But
genes continue to exist when new species happen.
Some of the really ancient genes for some basic
metabolic processes are in almost all creatures on
the planet. Genes for things how the genetic code
works. Maybe there aren't too many. I was thinking
how sugars are processed, but not all critters even
use sugar. I guess mostly they do. So maybe it
would be helpful have the idea of a meme-body,
that is, the entire set of memes that a person has.
And of course, this changes around for the life
of a person. And inside the meme-body are full
meme-organs that have a consolidated function.
I've seen Blackmore and maybe others try to use
the phrase meme-complex, and sure, that's one
way to describe it, but I'm not sure it quite
captures the way they work together. These
folks do describe religion as a meme complex,
things working together. And meme-complexes evolve.
I guess it kind of could be said that organs also
to some extent evolve almost, maybe slightly
independently from the individual species. I'm
sure real evolutionary biologists would have a
lot of problems with that idea (a lot of them
don't like the idea of group selection), but
we're talking analogies here. Anyway, so you've
got religions to some extent evolving. A lot
of times they share elements. In the way memes
can move around, they are quite different from
genes. So the correspondences in thinking about the
two are certainly going to break up. But you
do have religions competing. They even get people
to fight each other. They really are often super
evolvers, because a common meme that many share is
that all people who believe the other systems are
bad, going to hell, should even be killed sometimes.
And it's this commonly shared meme that makes me
say Christianity requires hate. It's part of the
common structure.
So I was saying how seduction includes a slight
bit of injury to the woman--not really satisfying
what she is really looking for, which is someone
to stick around. It's kind of a biological imperative.
And it can involve actually being a little deceptive about that,
which makes it worse, I suppose. But a part that
I wanted to bring up, and I don't think I got to,
was that to seduce people, you have to be somewhat
OK with hurting them. That's the kind of mental
block that I'm having with it all. Now, I do understand
that once you get into it, the rewards just dwarf
all the other consideration. And like I said,
properly done, you do share real love. So with
the way it is inevitably rewarded, it makes total
sense that it can become a common way of doing things.
So serial monogamy, which is the kind of thing I
see so often, becomes a very strong "basin of attraction"
to use a non-linear dynamics analogy. It's a way
of acting that is very easy for people to be pulled toward.
So it makes a lot of sense that different cultural systems
have done a lot to try to encourage and support more
lasting monogamies, even for a lifetime. And that's
disregarding the issue of just promiscuity and having
multiple partners at a time. That is, or at least has
been, a serious health concern, so it can surely be
said to be dangerous. But there are also the psychological
effects, which I'm trying to look at here, which are
also generally not good. Anyway, it seems like seducers
have to have this bit of callousness. And psychopaths
really can be super seducers, because they just don't
care at all. That's an extreme, but I just feel that
a seducer to some extent must be at least a little
weak in that area. So I don't have complete buy in,
but I'm still finding it interesting to read about.
I just saw someone saying that she likes honesty.
The feely types, and some things about her made me
think she was one of those, means something different
by honesty than what the rational thinky types mean.
And it can cause confusion. I kind of get the
idea that the feely types are to some level trying
to get the thinky types to like them more with a
statement like this. Playing on the confusion,
not so much as to be deceptive, but more in a sympathetic
way to meet them half way. Because a feely person
means someone who isn't trying to deceive them.
The thinky person isn't so much interested in
what the deceptive person is trying to do. They
just don't like the inaccuracies of the statement
itself. The feely person cares about the person.
The thinky person, not so much.
Looks like a golden retriever. I don't think blondie
is a cold-climate critter like ours. Wolves too seem
like they'd like the cold a bit better. We think our
dog is part wolf.
So my back was hurting, and I stretched and did the
chi gung, which is a little movement exercize,
in the kung fu class, and generally took it easy,
and I think it actually got better. So maybe they
know what their doing.
But sociopathic seducers does pose a question.
And not all sociopaths are good seducers, but
they can be great at it. My understanding
of them is that they don't feel empathy.
But to seduce you at least have to understand
the feelings of others. So how would that
work? Not having empathy means that their
pain and feelings don't matter to you,
and you don't share them at all. Maybe
they just feel everyone else is inferior.
And possibly the understanding is not from sharing.
Or maybe they just learn manipulative behaviors.
Also, possibly it's kind of like the reaction
people have toward animals sometimes--"oh look, he
thinks he's human! How cute!" I don't know.
Mmm, about to watch the lecture on the girly bits.
OK, only a couple minutes into it and I need a break.
Talking about the hymen. Never seen one personally.
He said mostly it's even already destroyed by puberty.
By athletics or some other trauma. Uh huh. Usually
it has perforations, but sometimes it doesn't (imperforate hymen),
which is a problem when she starts menstruating. And she'll
need surgery. Sure. Though some other treatment
comes to mind.
One thing he mentioned before and he mentions again
(to compare it with a girly issue) is a bit of how
appendicitis usually works. It usually starts with
pain at the belly button and then moves to the side
(right side). That's a big way they can tell what it is,
because it moves. It does that because of neurological
situation, but it is an important diagnostic feature.
And I think it was helpful to me when I heard it,
because sometimes I do get pain in my side and wonder.
But now I know. It has to start in the middle, otherwise
it's probably something else.
Happy Ides of January!
It might be the coldest night of the year. I just
went out to get some firewould, and the dog across
the street starting barking. Sure, maybe it was
a typical get out of my space kind of barking,
but I kind of got the feeling it was maybe a,
help me, I'm freezing, and I might die kind of barking.
I have a bit of trouble imagining people leaving their
dog out on a night like this. We have a really
arctic kind of dog that seems to like being out
in the cold. Will sit out in the yard at night.
And has a pretty nice den like igloo sort of house
to go to in the garage, if he feels like going in.
i don't know what the deal is with that dog across
the street.
So I was thinking about this whole seduction,
pickup thing. I'm slowly getting through a book
titled _Seduction_, and I've been variously interested
in the mystery method, and R.Don's stuff. But
it violates several systems of ethics. And can
get pretty bad. If done properly, you don't
particularly just use women for sex. You do
really share a bit of love along with the fun,
and the women do benefit or at least enjoy it
to some extent. But in general, women really want
guys to stay around, and they don't. So, if only
for that, you are hurting them, though maybe
"hurt" is a little strong. More of a disappointment,
perhaps, and it also is kind of loss because it
didn't really work out. And it perpetuates a culture
of guys picking up and moving on. That's the kind
of thing I don't like. I never wanted to pick up
and move on, and it's been the women in my relationships
that have moved away from me. Although, some of it may
have been me because I wasn't able to give up my
situation to be with them. But now I'm at a point of
transition. I have to find a new job. And maybe I'll
get something around here, but I could finally look
at something somewhere else. I have a better idea of
the kind of place I want to be. I have money to last
a bit while I look, and to some extent enough to manage
a transition like that. I do have reason to stick
around, but it's not such a big thing. One other
consideration, and why having a bit of money to last
a bit makes a difference. I could also be looking
for a girlfriend while looking for a job. And I've
found that I'm a bit picky, so looking around the country
might actually make sense.
It's really nice to have something you know you like.
Something that's easy enough to get and reliable.
A lot of things, you might be in the mood for
sometimes, and sometimes it will be good, and
sometimes not. But if you know about something
that always works for you, that's really special.
It really is something to cherish.
And in my experience, these things for me are
very personal. Typically I'm the only person
I know of that really likes them totally like
that. It is more a thing about me. But that's
kind of good, because there's not a crowd.
Actually, not having a crowd may be part of
the deal.
Christianity requires hate. In many places, Jesus
preaches hate. it's time to expose their lies
about being all about love. Even the "Love
your neighbor" subtly brings in hate. Love
people close around you. Everybody else
can go to hell. I say this in contract to
Buddhism, which has a meditation practice that
builds up to feeling compassion for everyone
in the world, with a step along the way of
feeling compassion for the enemies you know.
And the difference between love and compassion
is significant. You don't love them, but
you make an effort to put yourself in their
shoes and feelin their perspective and feelings
and understand them. As you, you may still
hate them, but maybe it's softened, and you
can let go of your little personal perspective
one the way to having the fully global perspective
of an enlightened being.
Sure, thinking about where I'd like to go next, I'm
really interested in St. Jude. I think about FedEx
the work was interesting, but there was something
about it that I just didn't like. Really rubbed me
the wrong way. Some of it seemed to be that it
was kind of a family place, and I didn't really
make any friends there. I haven't made any friends
anywhere else either, so that can't be that big a deal.
But there was something about the mission of the company.
I just don't think it ever really absolutely
positively had to be there overnight. I just didn't
have buy in to the company's mission. So it ended
up to me just feeling kind of greedy and venal. It
was just about the money. Hilton just for that has
been a lot better for me. People do need places to
stay when travelling. And it's nice to go to a fancy
place, where you get pampered a bit. But when the
money tightens up, I can see it having trouble,
so it's perfectly understandable that they should need
to cut me back. And the work environment was quite
different. I was working pretty much by myself.
I'm not sure if the co-workers at FedEx were irritating
so much. Actually it was really a great team and I feel
lucky to have had the chance to work with them,
but it was nice to move on. And right during that
period I ran into _Software Craftmanship_ which actually
got me thinking about the stages of development of
a craftsman. You start as an apprentice, then become
a journeyman, and then work on something to be a master.
I was certainly beyond being an apprentice, but it
seemed to make sense to me to take the journeyman idea,
where you would move to another situation and learn more
there. Anyway, I feel good about when I left, even though
I didn't do well right after that. Hilton has been good
development, too. I'm not sure if I'm ready to work on
a master project yet, but maybe it is time. Honestly I
guess it probably is. Still, maybe I should think just
about getting a job as part of a career in a more general sense.
Anyway, the thing about St. Jude is that it's a place
where the work is meaningful, and that is a bigger deal for
me. Perhaps it will still be just grinding out different
sections of systems. I need to be better at that.
So what would be a software master craftsman? Well,
there is a concept of senior developer. Typically,
sometimes the advanced people go more into management,
but the senior developers I've seen do archictectural
designs, and help make design decisions about how to
do things on particular projects. And then their
coding tends to be very skillful and reliable. Sometimes
they build frameworks, or essential design pieces that
other people can copy.
On thing I'd like to mention
is what a masterpiece is. People actually have a bit
of a misunderstanding of what that means. Most
people think it is just something truly excellent,
a master creating something at the top of his game.
But technically, that's not quite right. It is
a work that is supposed to show that a journeyman has
mastered the craft in the state it exists, and something
to show the guild that he is ready to take apprentices
and start passing things on. But it shouldn't be
too good, or that would make everyone else in the
guild look bad. I really don't know of any guild
stories, so I don't know if supergeniuses with
masterpieces that are too good was often a problem,
but that's what they said in _Software Craftmanship_.
It's just something that shows conventional mastery.
I'm not sure if there would have been a word for
a piece that is of unusually high quiality, so that's
what masterpiece has come to mean, but that wasn't
ther original idea.
Anyway, you make your masterpiece, and then you can
grind out quality merchandise. And that's your job
after that. And as a master, you can grind out your
own stuff, and get other people to help you, and they
can learn how to do it to. It is part of culture
where you don't have mass production and factories
and machines to crank out things. But it really does
seem like writing software isn't to that point where
you have mechanical stuff to get things done. People
do try to create mass produced bulk stuff like that.
I don't know how good it all is. And then there are
the software engineering approaches to creating software.
I guess. I don't know if I've been exposed to it enough
to know if it works for anyone. Anyway, some of the
examples of software craftsman were some of the people
who had a particular software product, and it was their
baby, and they just kept with it. I think there were
some editors that were like that. Probably the id
guys (the Johns) were like that. I don't know if
there is a big product I would want to work on and stay
with for a really long time. I really should be working
on some stuff, though. One other anaolgy. A dissertation
project really sounds like the same basic idea as a
masterpiece. I didn't do a master's thesis project.
That probably should have been the same corresponding thing.
Actually, come to think of it, a Ph.D. project is supposed
to advance the field, the way I was saying a masterpiece
would not, so I guess it really is a more advnaced thing.
I guess personally I just haven't gotten good at working
on and finishing a big project, start to finish. That is
something I really need to do.
Wow. Sitting with her is just so much different from
just remembering or thinking about it. I understand
there are just other things going on in my brain that
I am not aware of. But whatever they are, they just
make me feel good to be in her presence. And not
just that I guess. She talks to me and remembers
things about me, and that is just so friendly and
pleasant. I don't know, it may actually have been
that my feelings were detectably different. I guess
I'm not that good with them. This time when I was
leaving, she asked if I was maybe I would see her
this weekend, like maybe I might not. Hmm. I don't
know what that's about. I guess it's like what happened
with that other girl. There was certainly other stuff
going on that was confusing me and making me think some
feelings stronger than they were, because there were
hidden feelings adding to the soup, but even when I
bring those out and my feelings shift around a bit, I do still
love her. Which means I like to ve with her and talk
to her. I guess I didn't talk as much last night, but
I haven't been talking so much lately in general.
I'm not sure why, but I was dreaming of coyotes. chasing
us. Could be the crime I keep hearing about. Somehow,
personally they don't seem to bother me so much, and I float
above them. and somehow i got to talking to an ag extension
girl about artificial insemination for our cows. someone
asked me about ai, and I switched to that, I guess. Nephew
did shoot a coyote recently. It was chasing a deer. Picked
the wrong deer, I guess.
Melissa's parents bought her a new computer, an hp mini.
It fits in her purse. Her old one was too big to really
carry around, so she is really happy about this. And
I really like seeing Melissa happy about things. But she
needs Microsoft Word. It doesn't have a disk drive, so she doesn't
know how to get the copy she has onto it. I said networking
is what they expect when you don't have a drive. And suggested
that maybe OpenOffice will work. She has a trial version
which will expire at some point. Such a little sweetheart.
So Kim at some point in the beginning of December and said
the journal had been more interesting. I tried going back
to see what it was. I'm not positive. I was reading some
better psychology stuff and had things to pass on. So maybe
I should keep reading good stuff like that, if I can find it.
I don't know.
Not a good sign. Nausea and a bit of a headache.
Well, it looks like my job is gone. That'll certainly
change your perspective.
I just saw another canned soup commercial dissing MSG.
I think I saw another one that said they didn't have
anything that didn't taste good, like MSG. I'm sorry.
I've tasted MSG. We have some can of something,
I think it's called "Accent" and it's like pure
MSG. I tried it, and it's just great. I could
probably go for just a solution of just this stuff.
It wouldn't be like real food, but it would taste
good. It basically tastes like chicken broth.
I get the feeling that some of the boullion I've had
was really a small bit of real broth, with just a
big load of this stuff, to give it flavor. I've
had real broth that has a lot less flavor than this
stuff. Some of the problem is that it can fool you,
and you aren't getting as much meat as you think.
Also, some people are sensitive to it. I don't know,
gives them headaches or something. But screw people
with metabolic deficiencies.
"Oh, you're not only a fool, Leutnant, but also a religious fool, and perhaps a mystic at that."
I chop wood maybe a couple of times a year. Now I feel
like staying very still for a while. I was definitely feeling
the few extra pounds I just gained in the last month.
I never went out to Shadowcon. Missed the belly dancing.
I did start playing a little Call of Duty:World at War.
And we watched the Marx Brothers' _Night at the Opera_.
They are quite silly.
So the guy that started the kung fu style that I study,
ba gua, became a eunuch to work for the emperor. I hope
that doesn't have any personal implications for me.
So I was chopping wood, and I heard a big squeal and crunch.
I couldn't see it from where I was standing, but there was
a wreck on the corner there. Probably someone did not
come to a complete stop at the sign. Or they started up
together. They actually ended up on the lawn on the
corner. Seems like I heard them hitting the curb.
Big SUV, or maybe a minvan, and some kind of sedan.
Good time to be buying a new car.
So, I'm watching the anatomy and physiology class on
RW discs, so I don't have to keep the discs, I can
just write out the one I'm watching at the moment.
But I'm using this laptop to write it out. The
write speed is like 0.6, which is terrible. Takes
an hour per disc. I'm not sure what the problem is.
I think the removable hard disc may be slow on this
machine. But I guess there isn't any rush. Plenty
of other things to do. It kind of sucks this morning
because I burned the wrong one, so I have to do another one.
I'm actually using 2 discs, so if I had been more
organized, there wouldn't have been any delay at all,
because I could have been burning one while finishing
up the other. But that would have been almost like work.
The doctor used a great analogy, the squid response.
When you don't understand something, throw a lot of
ink on it. He used it specifically about how names
for medical things that aren't well understood are
very long, but I've seen plenty of places where people
write a lot without saying much.
Shadowcon is going on
this weekend. But I don't really feel like going out.
Or doing anything much, really. Right now, I think
the dance is going on. The past few years, there have
actually been people dancing. I think it's all the
cute young girl geeks. But I have yet to dance, myself.
And I'm missing it, anyway, this time. Probably just as well.
So I'm watching the Teaching Company class on anatomy and
physiology. This one is talking about the cranial nerves.
He said there was a mnemonic he couldn't say in a G-rated
lecture like that. And it took me a bit to find. I think
there is a wikpedia entry with nothing but a bunch of
mnemonics for it, but not this one. It's pretty memorable.
Only one object transcends time and foams vivaciously:
Glorious Vagina! All Hail! Or there's another one.
Oh, oh, oh, to touch and feel virgin girls' vaginas and
hymens. So, actually, I'm not sure which he meant.
One thing that stuck me just recently is how much our
knowledge is broken up into separate sections. When you're
thinking about one topic, you are pretty restricted in
what you consider. Just things that are generally relevant.
You don't have everything you know available or contributing
all at once. But you could switch to it pretty quick.
It just makes you wonder how you would do
something like that for a computer.
celebrating my inner grinch
so I was taking a class at MUS, and having trouble finding
the room, so I got there a little late while he
was calling attendance (early in the semester). some english
something or other from Mr. Shelton. And he asked me if
I was ready to read. And I didn't even have the book yet.
And asked again. so I said ok, I won't take the class and
left. Hmm. There are just some things I want to say
no to lately.
Happy Twelfth Day of Christmas!
I figure it's easy to fall back into old feelings.
They tend to be like habits. And it was nice to see
her again. Seems likes it's been a long week. It
was still not quite the same. She got me a I heart
New York T-shirt. That was really nice. Sometimes
I don't say thank you enough when I'm stunned.
She has a beautiful smile-- at least I like it.
Happy Eleventh Day of Christmas!
tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow creeps in this petty
pace from day to day
They watched _Beautiful Mind_ last night. I got a copy,
but I don't care for it so much. And Freddie was reading
about it. It's pretty inaccurate. Plus dude did not
have visual hallucinations. They also talk about delusions,
which is a different thing from hallucinations. So now
I have reasons to like it less.
Happy Tenth Day of Christmas!
Hmm, still with the Melissa dreams. I had one a couple
days ago where she was naked. That seemed nice, though
it was more about frustration. This one, she was working
at a store or something, and she
kind of turned her back on me, so I left. And i did
realize that I'm going to feel bad if I am not nice
to her. So I don't know. And I had some dream that
involved something about quantum probabilities. I guess
it wasn't really anything, though it seemed important.
It got me to thinking about how people's thoughts are
about manipulating a lot of flexible constraints,
which is very different from manipulating hard discrete
rules, and obeying instructions exactly. Remembering
dreams is a sign that I got more sleep, which is a
good thing. The rest of the crew were out at Edgar's
house, so I could go to sleep early in a quiet house.
Yeah, my feelings for Melissa still seem weaker. But I
really don't want to be mean to her. She has been a sweetheart.
Happy Ninth Day of Christmas!
They're all playing World of Goo. Aaron got a copy
for the PC for his birthday yesterday.
The God Helmet.
I thought I had heard about that. Using transcranial stimulation
to trigger religious experiences.
Happy New Years! Happy Eighth Day of Christmas!
I did go out to see Super 5 at Dan McGuinness. Anything
to get away from the family. Didn't really talk to anyone.
Kimberly was there with her radiant smile, but left at 11.
Lee from Transitt joined the for a few songs. It was not really
as busy as I've seen it get in there.
It happens every year. I don't believe in locking the bathroom
door. I think everyone is capable of knocking. But the nephews,
not so much. So I'll keep my foot against the door. Sure enough.
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